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 Take it to PM?, Alrighty then.
Posted: February 6, 2009 10:47 pmTop
   
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Right now, I am quite infuriated with what is going on.. Checking my chat logs, I don't see anywhere in #wg, or in the lobby Rick flaming. Do not get me wrong, I am not saying he didn't, in fact I am quite positive that he did flame..

Let us break there for a second to go to another topic. I have been known as a man who enjoys a good flame war, usually those who aren't involved tell me to take it somewhere.. Oh what is it they tell me? Hmm.. Let me think........ OH YEA, TO PM! Which I believe is a totally acceptable place to get things out.

Back to the main topic.. Rick did flame, but nothing was said in public. He got punished for doing exactly what anyone who flames is told to do. Even Elias has said to take it to PM and to never have these types of conversations in public.

So now that makes me wonder... Why is it we are told to take it to PM? All that would need to be done is pm a chat log to a leader, and you will be punished anyways I guess? Although, in this case it may have been to a tertiary, but does that matter? No, we are all people.... Rick taking it to PM did us all a favor, but no you have to punish him for it. This isn't right, PM means PERSONAL MESSAGE. Thus its contents should NEVER leave the people who the message is between.

Looking at the thread.. The reason for the final warn isn't even a good one. I do worse things that tell people they are sheep, and to piss off every day.. and I'm still here. I'm almost positive this is a personal vendetta against Rick, all going back to the Council Election thing, which I believe he was harassed about as soon as he came back from his suspension. Honestly, this has got to be the most idiotic reason for a ban I have ever seen.

Mind you this would have been in the other forum but I have no permission to post there. Have fun reading this... Make the right choice.
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 10:59 pmTop
   
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one word mate.... Amen.
that is so true and that ban was BS, sorry council but Ranma's right PM = ->PERSONAL<- Messege
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:01 pmTop
   
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Ugh perhaps I should explain.
Ok basically I didn't start this off. Rick and I were friends 30 mins before he get banned then the stuff he said to me, completely change my mind about him.
He then started flaming me and CONTINUED to flame me even after he was banned.
Even if its a personal pm, its abusive and its pure bullying and he has been told many times that his behaviour would not be tolerated.
He was verbally warned twice and then finally warned to 100%.
It's HIS OWN fault.
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:03 pmTop
   
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If its flaming towards another member, it wouldnt matter if it was in pm or not.

Are you saying that mass spamming another member (in pm of course) would be acceptable?

We were not biased against rick; Its undeniable that rick would have flammed the moment he returned, and thats what got him banned.

 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:05 pmTop
   
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By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:05 pmTop
   
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So Ryan mmm.
By your rules I could pm someone and start sending them death threats?
And that's not punishable.
Because what he was saying about me and about Cheyney (flaming tertiarys + COUNCIL) was absolutely disgusting.

Rick sunk to a new low today.
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:07 pmTop
   
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QUOTE (Gorgemaster @ February 06, 2009 06:01 pm)
Ugh perhaps I should explain.
Ok basically I didn't start this off. Rick and I were friends 30 mins before he get banned then the stuff he said to me, completely change my mind about him.
He then started flaming me and CONTINUED to flame me even after he was banned.
Even if its a personal pm, its abusive and its pure bullying and he has been told many times that his behaviour would not be tolerated.
He was verbally warned twice and then finally warned to 100%.
It's HIS OWN fault.

So what does that mean? All the times I've been told to take it to pm, I was simply being told to delay the inevitable? Why not just let people flame in #WG? Since you believe there is no difference.. Honestly you are wrong. in PM it doesn't matter.. You can always choose to ignore their pms. It is a bit harder ti ignore in #WG, although not impossible.
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:08 pmTop
   
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QUOTE (Gorgemaster @ February 06, 2009 11:05 pm)
Because what he was saying about me and about Cheyney (flaming tertiarys + COUNCIL) was absolutely disgusting.

Rick hasn't flamed me since the council nominations topic, for which he was not given a warn level as I wanted to give him a chance to change.

However, that doesn't take away the fact that disrespecting & flaming a tertiary is completely unacceptable.

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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:09 pmTop
   
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QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:05 pm)
By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Technically, since it was in a PM.. only those involved would know about it... and thus no one would think anyone bias...
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:10 pmTop
   
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QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 11:09 pm)
QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:05 pm)
By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Technically, since it was in a PM.. only those involved would know about it... and thus no one would think anyone bias...

The member who sent me the information of the conversation would have felt it as bias.

Imagine if it had been the other way around and it was rick sending me the quote. He would have assploded with fury had I not taken any action.

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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:12 pmTop
   
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QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:10 pm)
QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 11:09 pm)
QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:05 pm)
By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Technically, since it was in a PM.. only those involved would know about it... and thus no one would think anyone bias...

The member who sent me the information of the conversation would have felt it as bias.

Imagine if it had been the other way around and it was rick sending me the quote. He would have assploded with fury had I not taken any action.

~Mugger84

Do you know the meaning of Personal? The information shouldn't have gone past the two it was between. It should have stayed there and settled. Personal information, is personal information.. Would you like everyone to know your passwords? I think not. Don't try and tell me it isn't the same, because both are types of personal information.
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:15 pmTop
   
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QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 06:07 pm)
QUOTE (Gorgemaster @ February 06, 2009 06:01 pm)
Ugh perhaps I should explain.
Ok basically I didn't start this off. Rick and I were friends 30 mins before he get banned then the stuff he said to me, completely change my mind about him.
He then started flaming me and CONTINUED to flame me even after he was banned.
Even if its a personal pm, its abusive and its pure bullying and he has been told many times that his behaviour would not be tolerated.
He was verbally warned twice and then finally warned to 100%.
It's HIS OWN fault.

So what does that mean? All the times I've been told to take it to pm, I was simply being told to delay the inevitable? Why not just let people flame in #WG? Since you believe there is no difference.. Honestly you are wrong. in PM it doesn't matter.. You can always choose to ignore their pms. It is a bit harder ti ignore in #WG, although not impossible.

We tell people to take it to pm when BOTH sides are flaming. Instead of giving a warning level to both of them, we give them a chance to straighten it out.

When one member is bullying another member, thats unacceptable. If the other member is flaming back, then they're both wrong, but unless it becomes EXTREMELY out of hand, then neither will get warned. People that are told to "take it to pm" dont report the other member, because in doing so, it wouldnt be justifiable because they flammed too.

If only one side is flaming, we'll give a verbal warning.

Saying that if its in "PM," they're completely immune to punishment is wrong.

Saying they should "Ignore" the pm is totally not completely efficient. How many times have you and others been told to "Ignore" the issue and how many times has it worked?


 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:15 pmTop
   
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QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 11:12 pm)
QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:10 pm)
QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 11:09 pm)
QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:05 pm)
By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Technically, since it was in a PM.. only those involved would know about it... and thus no one would think anyone bias...

The member who sent me the information of the conversation would have felt it as bias.

Imagine if it had been the other way around and it was rick sending me the quote. He would have assploded with fury had I not taken any action.

~Mugger84

Do you know the meaning of Personal? The information shouldn't have gone past the two it was between. It should have stayed there and settled. Personal information, is personal information.. Would you like everyone to know your passwords? I think not. Don't try and tell me it isn't the same, because both are types of personal information.

To Repeat:

By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:17 pmTop
   
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QUOTE (Back to Own @ February 06, 2009 06:15 pm)
QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 06:07 pm)
QUOTE (Gorgemaster @ February 06, 2009 06:01 pm)
Ugh perhaps I should explain.
Ok basically I didn't start this off. Rick and I were friends 30 mins before he get banned then the stuff he said to me, completely change my mind about him.
He then started flaming me and CONTINUED to flame me even after he was banned.
Even if its a personal pm, its abusive and its pure bullying and he has been told many times that his behaviour would not be tolerated.
He was verbally warned twice and then finally warned to 100%.
It's HIS OWN fault.

So what does that mean? All the times I've been told to take it to pm, I was simply being told to delay the inevitable? Why not just let people flame in #WG? Since you believe there is no difference.. Honestly you are wrong. in PM it doesn't matter.. You can always choose to ignore their pms. It is a bit harder ti ignore in #WG, although not impossible.

We tell people to take it to pm when BOTH sides are flaming. Instead of giving a warning level to both of them, we give them a chance to straighten it out.

When one member is bullying another member, thats unacceptable. If the other member is flaming back, then they're both wrong, but unless it becomes EXTREMELY out of hand, then neither will get warned. People that are told to "take it to pm" dont report the other member, because in doing so, it wouldnt be justifiable because they flammed too.

If only one side is flaming, we'll give a verbal warning.

Saying that if its in "PM," they're completely immune to punishment is wrong.

Saying they should "Ignore" the pm is totally not completely efficient. How many times have you and others been told to "Ignore" the issue and how many times has it worked?

There is no need to open the PM.... IF someone begins flaming you, and you don't want to read it.. Don't. It is completely your choice. If you lack the self control to stop yourself from reading a simple PM, I feel pity for you.
 
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It'd be total chaos if flaming in PM's is tolerated in my opinion.
People would just use it as a 'loophole' in the respect rule.
When you're told to take it to PM, it's to discuss things that have lots of arguments about it, as long as it's not personal attacks.
 
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QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 06:12 pm)
QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:10 pm)
QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 11:09 pm)
QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:05 pm)
By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Technically, since it was in a PM.. only those involved would know about it... and thus no one would think anyone bias...

The member who sent me the information of the conversation would have felt it as bias.

Imagine if it had been the other way around and it was rick sending me the quote. He would have assploded with fury had I not taken any action.

~Mugger84

Do you know the meaning of Personal? The information shouldn't have gone past the two it was between. It should have stayed there and settled. Personal information, is personal information.. Would you like everyone to know your passwords? I think not. Don't try and tell me it isn't the same, because both are types of personal information.

If a person is getting harrased in real life, you cant possibly argue that its "personal" information. Lets be completely honest, ignoring them wouldnt work, and it isnt the proper solution.

If that happened, people would go to the authorities, not "Ignore it." Saying that that is personal information would never fly.

It doesnt matter whether it was in PM or not, the rules still stand.
 
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Umm, Ryan, i watched Rick_Hamm openly in #wg attack Steve, this not being the first time. sad.gif
 
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QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 06:17 pm)
QUOTE (Back to Own @ February 06, 2009 06:15 pm)
QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 06:07 pm)
QUOTE (Gorgemaster @ February 06, 2009 06:01 pm)
Ugh perhaps I should explain.
Ok basically I didn't start this off. Rick and I were friends 30 mins before he get banned then the stuff he said to me, completely change my mind about him.
He then started flaming me and CONTINUED to flame me even after he was banned.
Even if its a personal pm, its abusive and its pure bullying and he has been told many times that his behaviour would not be tolerated.
He was verbally warned twice and then finally warned to 100%.
It's HIS OWN fault.

So what does that mean? All the times I've been told to take it to pm, I was simply being told to delay the inevitable? Why not just let people flame in #WG? Since you believe there is no difference.. Honestly you are wrong. in PM it doesn't matter.. You can always choose to ignore their pms. It is a bit harder ti ignore in #WG, although not impossible.

We tell people to take it to pm when BOTH sides are flaming. Instead of giving a warning level to both of them, we give them a chance to straighten it out.

When one member is bullying another member, thats unacceptable. If the other member is flaming back, then they're both wrong, but unless it becomes EXTREMELY out of hand, then neither will get warned. People that are told to "take it to pm" dont report the other member, because in doing so, it wouldnt be justifiable because they flammed too.

If only one side is flaming, we'll give a verbal warning.

Saying that if its in "PM," they're completely immune to punishment is wrong.

Saying they should "Ignore" the pm is totally not completely efficient. How many times have you and others been told to "Ignore" the issue and how many times has it worked?

There is no need to open the PM.... IF someone begins flaming you, and you don't want to read it.. Don't. It is completely your choice. If you lack the self control to stop yourself from reading a simple PM, I feel pity for you.

You cannot POSSIBLY argue that ignoring would have worked.
We both know that if a flame was ever directed at you, YOU would have never ignored it and you would have fired right back.
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:20 pmTop
   
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QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:15 pm)
QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 11:12 pm)
QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:10 pm)
QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 11:09 pm)
QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:05 pm)
By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Technically, since it was in a PM.. only those involved would know about it... and thus no one would think anyone bias...

The member who sent me the information of the conversation would have felt it as bias.

Imagine if it had been the other way around and it was rick sending me the quote. He would have assploded with fury had I not taken any action.

~Mugger84

Do you know the meaning of Personal? The information shouldn't have gone past the two it was between. It should have stayed there and settled. Personal information, is personal information.. Would you like everyone to know your passwords? I think not. Don't try and tell me it isn't the same, because both are types of personal information.

To Repeat:

By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Well if you want a logic fight, by indeed taking action I could easily say that your true reason for punishing Rick, is that he made those comments about you during the elections. Honestly, I could say you simply have a personal vendetta against him, like I believe I already have... I could say you are basing things off the past.
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:21 pmTop
   
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Ugh perhaps I should explain.
Ok basically I didn't start this off. Rick and I were friends 30 mins before he get banned then the stuff he said to me, completely change my mind about him.
He then started flaming me and CONTINUED to flame me even after he was banned.
Even if its a personal pm, its abusive and its pure bullying and he has been told many times that his behaviour would not be tolerated.
He was verbally warned twice and then finally warned to 100%.
It's HIS OWN fault.

So what does that mean? All the times I've been told to take it to pm, I was simply being told to delay the inevitable? Why not just let people flame in #WG? Since you believe there is no difference.. Honestly you are wrong. in PM it doesn't matter.. You can always choose to ignore their pms. It is a bit harder ti ignore in #WG, although not impossible.

We tell people to take it to pm when BOTH sides are flaming. Instead of giving a warning level to both of them, we give them a chance to straighten it out.

When one member is bullying another member, thats unacceptable. If the other member is flaming back, then they're both wrong, but unless it becomes EXTREMELY out of hand, then neither will get warned. People that are told to "take it to pm" dont report the other member, because in doing so, it wouldnt be justifiable because they flammed too.

If only one side is flaming, we'll give a verbal warning.

Saying that if its in "PM," they're completely immune to punishment is wrong.

Saying they should "Ignore" the pm is totally not completely efficient. How many times have you and others been told to "Ignore" the issue and how many times has it worked?

There is no need to open the PM.... IF someone begins flaming you, and you don't want to read it.. Don't. It is completely your choice. If you lack the self control to stop yourself from reading a simple PM, I feel pity for you.

You cannot POSSIBLY argue that ignoring would have worked.
We both know that if a flame was ever directed at you, YOU would have never ignored it and you would have fired right back.

This isn't about ME, now is it? I did say you can choose to ignore it.
 
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By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Technically, since it was in a PM.. only those involved would know about it... and thus no one would think anyone bias...

The member who sent me the information of the conversation would have felt it as bias.

Imagine if it had been the other way around and it was rick sending me the quote. He would have assploded with fury had I not taken any action.

~Mugger84

Do you know the meaning of Personal? The information shouldn't have gone past the two it was between. It should have stayed there and settled. Personal information, is personal information.. Would you like everyone to know your passwords? I think not. Don't try and tell me it isn't the same, because both are types of personal information.

To Repeat:

By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Well if you want a logic fight, by indeed taking action I could easily say that your true reason for punishing Rick, is that he made those comments about you during the elections. Honestly, I could say you simply have a personal vendetta against him, like I believe I already have... I could say you are basing things off the past.

If I had a personal vendetta against Rick Hamm, I would have banned him when he posted the rude post on the council nominations WHILST he was suspended. HOWEVER, I instead gave him a chance to change his ways. Your logic is flawed.

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QUOTE (Gorgemaster @ February 06, 2009 06:01 pm)
Ugh perhaps I should explain.
Ok basically I didn't start this off. Rick and I were friends 30 mins before he get banned then the stuff he said to me, completely change my mind about him.
He then started flaming me and CONTINUED to flame me even after he was banned.
Even if its a personal pm, its abusive and its pure bullying and he has been told many times that his behaviour would not be tolerated.
He was verbally warned twice and then finally warned to 100%.
It's HIS OWN fault.

So what does that mean? All the times I've been told to take it to pm, I was simply being told to delay the inevitable? Why not just let people flame in #WG? Since you believe there is no difference.. Honestly you are wrong. in PM it doesn't matter.. You can always choose to ignore their pms. It is a bit harder ti ignore in #WG, although not impossible.

We tell people to take it to pm when BOTH sides are flaming. Instead of giving a warning level to both of them, we give them a chance to straighten it out.

When one member is bullying another member, thats unacceptable. If the other member is flaming back, then they're both wrong, but unless it becomes EXTREMELY out of hand, then neither will get warned. People that are told to "take it to pm" dont report the other member, because in doing so, it wouldnt be justifiable because they flammed too.

If only one side is flaming, we'll give a verbal warning.

Saying that if its in "PM," they're completely immune to punishment is wrong.

Saying they should "Ignore" the pm is totally not completely efficient. How many times have you and others been told to "Ignore" the issue and how many times has it worked?

There is no need to open the PM.... IF someone begins flaming you, and you don't want to read it.. Don't. It is completely your choice. If you lack the self control to stop yourself from reading a simple PM, I feel pity for you.

You cannot POSSIBLY argue that ignoring would have worked.
We both know that if a flame was ever directed at you, YOU would have never ignored it and you would have fired right back.

This isn't about ME, now is it? I did say you can choose to ignore it.

It if doesnt work for you, then how could you say it woulda worked for them?
 
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Posted: February 6, 2009 11:27 pmTop
   
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By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Technically, since it was in a PM.. only those involved would know about it... and thus no one would think anyone bias...

The member who sent me the information of the conversation would have felt it as bias.

Imagine if it had been the other way around and it was rick sending me the quote. He would have assploded with fury had I not taken any action.

~Mugger84

Do you know the meaning of Personal? The information shouldn't have gone past the two it was between. It should have stayed there and settled. Personal information, is personal information.. Would you like everyone to know your passwords? I think not. Don't try and tell me it isn't the same, because both are types of personal information.

To Repeat:

By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Well if you want a logic fight, by indeed taking action I could easily say that your true reason for punishing Rick, is that he made those comments about you during the elections. Honestly, I could say you simply have a personal vendetta against him, like I believe I already have... I could say you are basing things off the past.

If I had a personal vendetta against Rick Hamm, I would have banned him when he posted the rude post on the council nominations WHILST he was suspended. HOWEVER, I instead gave him a chance to change his ways. Your logic is flawed.

~Mugger84

Is it now? How do I know you weren't waiting for the smallest thing to give yourself a so-called "just" reason for the ban? With as many people on Ricks side back at the time of the election you could have easily suspected that a bigger uproar than this one would have happened. Right now, when he has just returned would obviously be the best time to catch him off guard. You confront him about what happened during the council elections, maybe George does to. This sets him off, and you win by calling it an attack.
 
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QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:10 pm)
QUOTE (Ranma344 @ February 06, 2009 11:09 pm)
QUOTE (Mugger84 @ February 06, 2009 06:05 pm)
By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Technically, since it was in a PM.. only those involved would know about it... and thus no one would think anyone bias...

The member who sent me the information of the conversation would have felt it as bias.

Imagine if it had been the other way around and it was rick sending me the quote. He would have assploded with fury had I not taken any action.

~Mugger84

Do you know the meaning of Personal? The information shouldn't have gone past the two it was between. It should have stayed there and settled. Personal information, is personal information.. Would you like everyone to know your passwords? I think not. Don't try and tell me it isn't the same, because both are types of personal information.

To Repeat:

By your logic, a member could pm another saying the most obscene comments about them whenever they please, and not be repremanded? That makes no sense?

I rarely ever tell anyone to 'take something to PM' - I do my utmost to solve the actual situation by taking the two people into a separate channel to discuss the issue.

Rick Hamm's abusive behavior towards a tertiary was completely unacceptable. Had no action been taken whatever, the leadership would have been accused of bias in favour of Rick Hamm. By banning him, obviously we are still accused of bias against Rick Hamm. As I pointed out on his leaving topic, with the Rick Hamm situation, unfortunately we can not please everyone.

That being said, harrasment, disrespect and flaming towards a clan mate in PM is equally as unacceptable as it would be in the main channel. I have always personally taken a firm stance on this. I believe that flaming is an offence by whatever means it is sent to the target. For this reason, Rick hamm recieved a warning level.

~Mugger84

Well if you want a logic fight, by indeed taking action I could easily say that your true reason for punishing Rick, is that he made those comments about you during the elections. Honestly, I could say you simply have a personal vendetta against him, like I believe I already have... I could say you are basing things off the past.

If I had a personal vendetta against Rick Hamm, I would have banned him when he posted the rude post on the council nominations WHILST he was suspended. HOWEVER, I instead gave him a chance to change his ways. Your logic is flawed.

~Mugger84

Is it now? How do I know you weren't waiting for the smallest thing to give yourself a so-called "just" reason for the ban? With as many people on Ricks side back at the time of the election you could have easily suspected that a bigger uproar than this one would have happened. Right now, when he has just returned would obviously be the best time to catch him off guard. You confront him about what happened during the council elections, maybe George does to. This sets him off, and you win by calling it an attack.

Confront him? Wtf are you talking about?

I was presented with a complaint from a tertiary that a member had been bullying & flaming them - I read the evidence thoroughly and decided that I agreed that the appropriate action would be for the member to recieve a warning level. This member was unfortunately Rick Hamm. Again, unfortunately Rick Hamm was already on 80% warn, and so his warn was topped up to the maximum 100%, which is an outright permenant ban.

There was a completely just reason for a warning level from rick's post in the council nominations. Even then I recieved three complaints about the post, two of which even said Rick ought to be given a warn level for his post. Had I felt that Rick wouldn't change at the time, I would have banned him, however me being the gullible person I am believed Rick would be able to change for the better. It was a shame to find today that I was wrong, and that I could have saved a whole lot of drama has I not been bias in favour of Rick Hamm last week in the council nomination topic. I'm ashamed I didn't ban him at the point at which I could have saved a lot of drama.

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George you of all people should know that sheep is not really all that bad to be called. You follow the great Shepard. I have to agree with Ryan. He is right on about what he is saying. Rick has been the target for some time.

A half-truth is a whole lie. Was his action all that offensive? It is more wise to love the people who are willing to tell you in private what they see as your faults. Instead it is being used against him.
 
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