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What is this crap?

By rachellove9 on 24/07/2009
I don't like that Omar has returned to push training in a not so great way. He is a trial guardian and I'm being harassed by him to train every time I come in IRC? I can take it but that is not my point.

We have had peace in WG between War/skiller members for months now. No real division between us in any negative way. I see him stirring up problems that made us have a mass leaving in the past. Get a grip on it!!! He may think it is all fun and that but everyone here doesn't know him. I can see him pushing so hard that people just leave or start rebelling against combat stuff.

Is this really what we want???? A trial guardian causing us a bunch of trouble before he even graduates. I don't give a flying cow what level he is or how good he is at wars.

This in no way reflects my personal relationship with Omar. I on a personal level love him. But as an Elite Guardian, I have to put that aside and tell the truth as I see it.

Rachy wub.gif

By David on 24/07/2009
Couldn't agree more.

He was let in easily because we know him. He shouldn't get away with THE SAME SHIT he did last time that only stirred the feud which led to our slump.

We've been without any sort of problems and now that he's back he's already started stuff with Jesper. Granted he wasn't flaming or anything, but just pushing people to do what he wants and then pinning WG downfall on them...what the hell is that?

He needs to be watched, and he needs to be treated like a Trial Guardian - keep him on a short leash.

By JC on 24/07/2009
I agree with both David and Rach.

Omar shouldn't be coming back and getting straight up peoples back by telling people to go train, regardless of it being (at least partially) friendly banter or not, he's very quickly going to annoy people and potentially undo all the positives we have seen over the last few months with Skillers and Cmb'ers working together.

It frustrates me personally, that it seems as though to him its only good enough if you're maxed (and I'm sure he would still hassle you if you weren't maxed Agility as well). My account's stats are exactly that, mine, and it is my choice whether I decide to get them up or not.

If we really want to encourage people to train up their combat, having someone tell people to 'Go train' is not the way to go about it, whether they are a trial guardian or Gene. Positive reinforcement is always going to give you more success.... be it combat SoTW (which seems to work fairly well) or even a longer term combat training competition.

How about a "Intraclan combat olympics" to see how much combat Xp you can get within 2 weeks? or something along those to encourage people to train, but enjoy training + competeing with other clan-mates?

By VEPHYSAURAS on 24/07/2009
The very fact that you guys say he disrupts us as a clan disturbs me. He is only one single member. He is only trial Guardian and he should not have such a mass effect. It is a negative effect as well.

Tell him to cut it out. I'll keep my eye on him. I have nothing against him but if I see this bringing the clan or any single individual in the clan down I will take action.

By His Lordship on 24/07/2009
Sending him a PM now.
Can you guys (Rach, David, Veph etc,) let me know if you want this kept confidential or if you'll let me quote you anonymously.

By David on 24/07/2009
Preferably anonymous that way no more trouble is made by it. So long as he KNOWS people are watching him, he doesn't need to know who though.

By VEPHYSAURAS on 24/07/2009
Keep it antonymous for now. Hopefully it can be sorted by diplomatic discussion and reasoning first.

By Back to Own on 24/07/2009
Yea I warned him about this

He should be stopping now, otherwise he'll get slapped around hashdown.gif.png

By rachellove9 on 24/07/2009
Yes, Gene let him know. He went as far to tell one of our members that they are bringing down the clan and stuff. I told the person to come to me if he has any trouble.



By George on 24/07/2009
I had a chat with him a few hours ago, he seemed pretty apologetic.

By JC on 25/07/2009
Nice to see he was genuinely apologetic, and not just sorry one min and back to it the next eh?

QUOTE
[01:25:50] <+leecable> I gud train
[01:25:53] <+Havoc> no ur not
[01:25:55] <+Havoc> why arnt u maxed
[01:25:57] <+Havoc> gawd
[01:26:02] <+Havoc> FASTER


QUOTE
[01:27:31] <+Havoc> go back to training


Yeah, obviously the 'talks' with him haven't changed anything sad.gif

By Lee on 25/07/2009
JC, thats an ongoing joke between me and Omar, its nothing serious. I hsa been bugging me to train for about..a year? Lol

By JC on 25/07/2009
QUOTE (Leecable @ July 26, 2009 02:36 am)
JC, thats an ongoing joke between me and Omar, its nothing serious. I hsa been bugging me to train for about..a year? Lol

As I said in Pm,

He shouldn't be continuing the same joke that he got warned about the day before, regardless of whether he has been doing it for 'nearly a year' or not.

By Lee on 25/07/2009
Fair point, ill tell him to only do it in PM to me smile.gif

By Bassism on 26/07/2009
It's seriously starting to bug me now, it seems it's all he can talk about.

Everytime I look in the IRC while he's active it's "Go train".

Annoying.

By rachellove9 on 27/07/2009
Yeah I agree with Owen. Even when I was trying to have our weekly ts meeting he was like we need to go lvl 120+. I found him annoying. I know he is young so I'm going to ignore some of the things he does. Actually, I find his telling me to train make me not want to do it at all. Probably the rebellious female in me.

Somehow there has to be a way to calm him down. He has great intentions and we don't want to squash him. He just needs more guidance on how to deal with people.

My suggestion is when he starts we all pm him the link to how not to be a loser that Gene made. Maybe that will hit him and he will realize.

By JC on 27/08/2009
This has returned and reared its ugly head once again.

Of particular concern is Omar's oppinion that since he did it while he was trial its fine to do it now that he has graduated. No matter whether it is a joke or not it is getting on allot of peoples nerves now (at least 3 members were incredibly annoyed about it that I saw today) and it needs to stop.

Thanks to the 2 council members that did try to deal with it in IRC today.

I have to say I am absolutely infuriated by his attitude of not adding applicants unless they're 120+.

This really has to stop.

If he even mentions 'go train' or similar in #wg or lobby from now on, joking or not, I will kick him.

By DZ on 27/08/2009
I've noticed it starting up again as well.

By VEPHYSAURAS on 27/08/2009
Let hax Jagex and lower his combat to 100 ohmy.gif

Eh well I'll try to discourage him from doing that. It is annoying.

By His Lordship on 27/08/2009
Have you spoken to him JC? Or do you make it a habit to just post your annoyance first. Yes, I'm taking a dig at you.
Your posts in level 2 just make too big a deal out of an issue that can be handled without alerting half the clan.

By JC on 27/08/2009
QUOTE (His Lordship @ August 27, 2009 10:51 pm)
Have you spoken to him JC? Or do you make it a habit to just post your annoyance first. Yes, I'm taking a dig at you.
Your posts in level 2 just make too big a deal out of an issue that can be handled without alerting half the clan.

Myself, BTO, Darth All talked to him about it today to little or no result.

I also find that unless you document everything, then nothing will happen. If this thread had never been made here I doubt he will have got the initial warning, I also doubt that if people (I) dont make posts like this nothing would happen again.

I don't just make these posts to piss people off, and if I wanted to inform half the clan I would post this in lvl 1 or some shit. If you were actually there you would be pissed off as well but I guess thats always going to be an issue....

Oh wait, am I taking a dig at your activity?

By rachellove9 on 27/08/2009
Gene I have talked to him in irc and in pm in irc. He just doesn't get it. He admits that I'm like the only low lvl that he likes. He likes Dieyou too, cause he is good at raiding. lol But it just isn't a good thing to be saying crap about the lower lvls as those are the people that are coming in to clans first time and may be the upcoming long term members we want.

I started this thread cause I am protective of lower levels and new members in general. If we had someone lvl 120 that was really bad at war and he started on them it would be just as bad. He thinks he will see results from harassing.

My real question now is . . . Do we even have a training issue currently? Like I think most of the people in the clan do train at least some each month. The Combat Skill training has helped me slowly get some training in. I like the attendance. I tried to suggest Omar take other approaches to get people to train too.

Omar has a place in WG and could be very positive. We just need him going in the right direction.

By Lee on 27/08/2009
I also spoke to him. Trying to tell him to stop, before I went to bed. He was like. 'What are you going todo to me' So I kicked him, to try and get the message across. But he just came back 'and what'.

I agree, he's actions will become a negative on the clan. And we dont want this. He either bucks up, or gets out. My opinion.

By Bassism on 27/08/2009
QUOTE (Theevildead2 @ August 27, 2009 10:03 am)
Oh wait, am I taking a dig at your activity?

Oh snap.

I'm with JC, if nobody made posts about problems, whether they've spoken to the individual or not, nothing would get done. JC is trying to help.

Numerous people have spoken to Omar, and the problem still persists, to be honest, I think the only person he's going to listen to is you Gene. And not a forum PM, you need to actually sit down in IRC and talk to him. Find some way to channel his energy into coming up with incentives to train, or events. Hell, he even has digs at high combat members, if he thinks their agility is too low. People want to play the game how they want to play, not how Omar wants to play.

By His Lordship on 27/08/2009
QUOTE (Theevildead2 @ August 27, 2009 10:03 am)
Oh wait, am I taking a dig at your activity?


Go for it. I don't deny it and I even told you 6 weeks ago I was going inactive so it's not news.

I'll spend 30 seconds with him and I'll time it, and I'll shut him up, and resume my inactivity, and have done the job faster than it took you to type a dig at me. GL in the council elections if you are running.

Oh wait, am I taking a dig at your chances?

By David on 27/08/2009
It really is annoying...it's ALL about training with him.

No matter what level you are, if you aren't maxed then you're not good enough. It's ridiculous...

I mean I'm friends with Omar and all but he needs to change that attitude towards training.

We all want to raise WG's combat average, but that's all he cares about and he doesn't care about people's feelings when it comes to that.

He has to be talked to.

By Back to Own on 27/08/2009
Chill out ladies, no reason to fight over my sexiness.

However, I will say that when I talked to him he was being very rebellious.

He needs to understand that above everything else, we are a community clan. Sure PvP and skilling is great, but before everything else, we value our community. Sure it would be a nice thing for everybody to train and us to gain ranks, but really, thats the only thing I've seen him going for so far. Hes taking it into his own hands, and it isnt working.

He's becoming very difficult and narrow minded. Theres other things then just training, and he needs to understand it.

QUOTE

<@Theevildead2> well perhaps if you read intro's it might help, there's more to helping WG than 'hassling people to train' (Which arguably doesnt help at all)
<+Havoc> Again with this
<+Havoc> You guys can do whatever you want
<+Havoc> but as long as im not breaking rules
<+Havoc> i can do it
<+Havoc> So get over it

<@bto|HW> or
<@Theevildead2> Actually omar
<@bto|HW> if council have been saying to stop
<@bto|HW> which we have
<@bto|HW> then you should stop
<@Theevildead2> You were asked to stop with the training shit when you were a trial
<+Havoc> Yup im a member now
<+Havoc> Ok ban me that'll go great right

<+groedius> so you should have stopped
<+pkers210|drew> fuck my computer cant do anything
<+groedius> being a member doesnt give you the right to annoy other people
<@bto|HW> dont get cocky
* +Ka_pineapple has quit IRC (Quit:o)
<+Havoc> No im not being cocky
<@bto|HW> we asked you to stop cause its annoying other members
<@bto|HW> i personally dont care, but when it starts annoying other people, thats where I draw the line

<+Havoc> So instead of tohse CERTAIn members coming to me and telling me to stop
<+Havoc> they run to you guys and bitch at me
<+Havoc> I like that one girl in this clan
<+Havoc> whats her name the dutch
<+Havoc> she actually does something about it instead of running to council
<+Havoc> and crying about it

<@bto|HW> does it make a difference?
<@Theevildead2> Isn't that they way leadership works Omar? they help fix issues?
<+Havoc> Yeah it does
* Theevildead2 is now known as Evil[Away]

<+Havoc> finds out who here is independant and who needs to cry about it
<+Havoc> JC
<+Havoc> I think leadership have better things to do
<+[Randy]> GO TRAIN COMBAT
<+[Randy]> GO TRAIN COMBAT
<+[Randy]> GO TRAIN COMBAT
<@Evil[Away]> !k [Randy]
* [Randy] was kicked by X (Requestedo)
<+Havoc> JC why are you op anyway
-lunar.nl.eu.SwiftIRC.net:@#wg- RobbieBot invited [Randy] into the channel.
* [Randy] ([email protected]) has joined #wg
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<+Havoc> If i cant even get voiced during raids cus im just a member
<@Evil[Away]> Read IA
<+[Randy]> was clearly beinf sarcastic!
<+Havoc> See i could be annoying and go run to council
<+Havoc> but im not gunna bother there time cus of that
<+[Randy]> omar go train combat dude
<+Havoc> doing it now randy
<@bto|HW> just because other people go to authority doesnt mean they're wrong
<+Havoc> If some one is breaking rules
<+Havoc> You report it to council
<+Havoc> IF some one is telling you to train without being all cuddly about it
<+Havoc> You don't waste time of the council for that
<+[Randy]> they don't have to if they don't want to /end
<@bto|HW> Big al didnt break any rules
<+Havoc> Big al had it coming
<@bto|HW> because he was annoying

<+Havoc> He flamed
<+Havoc> and lied
<+Havoc> thats different
<+Havoc> He flamed Darth
<+Havoc> At least i can argue with you without flaming so tahts why i dont get banned
<@bto|HW> doesnt matter
<@bto|HW> I'm telling you to stop
<+pkers210|drew> !gE prayer potion
<+Havoc> If i continue
<+[Randy]> i don't see what's stopping them from punishing you if that's what you're trying to prove
<+Havoc> What im saying i dont flame so i can get my point out
<@bto|HW> If you're harrasing people, we dont care if you're flaming or not
<+[Randy]> they'll listen if you do iot nicer
<+Havoc> So me telling people to train is harrasing
<@bto|HW> If they dont like it and you keep harrassing them then theres a problem
<+Havoc> i dont insult them i just tell them to do it
<+[Randy]> every 10 seconds, ya
<+Sgtswordfish> !youtube papa roach: scars
<@bto|HW> it shouldnt be a problem of "what leadership can do to me", it should be "I should try to be courteous and NOT annoy people"
<+Sgtswordfish> ?
<+Sgtswordfish> did i miss something?
<+Rachy_rs> hi Fishy
<+Sgtswordfish> dang my inactive self to heck =D
<+Havoc> So how abuot i become like the other 40 members of WG and shut my mouth and go silent skip raids and dont put my opinion out
<+Rachy_rs> YOu missed me and Omar fighting
<+Sgtswordfish> good evening rachel =P
<+Sgtswordfish> late as usual...no way
<+groedius> Rachel pm me a sec
<+Havoc> I have my methods
<+Sgtswordfish> did u take pics =D
<+Havoc> Look at rachel
<+Havoc> Rachel how many times do i harras you to train?

* +Rachy_rs whack Omar with my shoe
<+Rachy_rs> Not as much any more lol
<+Havoc> before
<+Rachy_rs> All the time
<+Havoc> Did it do any influence?
<+groedius> rachel just read my pm for a sec i need a massieve favour
<@bto|HW> You're becoming difficult
<@Darf|Shower> holy shit ow
<@bto|HW> it doesnt matter
<+Sgtswordfish> lol
<+Rachy_rs> yes I would get annoyed and not want to do it
<+Sgtswordfish> sounds like fun
<+Rachy_rs> lol
<@Darf|Shower> I ripped an ingrown toenail out earlier
<+Sgtswordfish> lol
<+Havoc> If im too difficult then should i just leave
<@Darf|Shower> that thing was massive
<+Sgtswordfish> i tore my heart open..i sewed myself up =D
<+Sgtswordfish> if i wished you'll stay..or passed me by =D.
<@bto|HW> You want to leave over the fact that im telling you to STOP harassing people over training?
<+Havoc> If im not welcomed in WG i wont make it dramatic
<+Havoc> No
<+Rachy_rs> Omar knows I love him
<@bto|HW> You think you're not welcome over the fact that you're HARASSING people and some people dont like it?
<+Sgtswordfish> ?
<+Sgtswordfish> dude, we have to train..don't we?
<+Havoc> I think its pathetic that those people can't come to me and say something
<@bto|HW> its not just you rach, this would be the third time
<@Darf|Shower> I'll say what I said earlier
<+Rachy_rs> I tell you all the time to go fish
<+pkers210|drew> !ge calquat seed
<@Darf|Shower> People get pissed at you for it, start saying they're being harassed by members, useless drama is started, and people leave over it, and you "strengthening" the clan is actually hurting i
* Darf|Shower is now known as Darth_Magul
<+Havoc> Who has leaved WG
<+Havoc> because of me

<@bto|HW> no one
<+Havoc> exactly
<@RobbieBot>  Seriously use the fucking lobby. I am sick of having to remind people.
<@RobbieBot> Weekly Tears of Guthix - 2 days, 13 hours, 34 minutes, and 2 seconds from now. ( http://www.wildernessguardians.com/forum/i...?showtopic=6526 )

<+Havoc> how long have i been doing this?
<+Havoc> Since i first rejoined wg
<@bto|HW> whos left so far cause of me becoming inactive
<@bto|HW> oh wait
<+[Randy]> LLLL
<@Darth_Magul> People get pissed at you for it, start saying they're being harassed by members, useless drama is started, and people getting mad over it*, and you "strengthening" the clan is actually hurting it
<@Darth_Magul> Fixed
<@bto|HW> maybe its still alright
<@bto|HW> so ill keep being inactive
<+Havoc> Go ahead
<+Havoc> You keep coming to raids and wars
<+Sgtswordfish> bto
<+Havoc> its no problem
<+Sgtswordfish> stop this
<+Havoc> as long as u actually do your job
-RuneHQ.mi.us.SwiftIRC.net:@#wg- RobbieBot invited Tttkaab|Brandon into the channel.
<+Havoc> i could care if you only played an hour a day
<@bto|HW> This argument is ridiculous
<+Havoc> I just tell u to be active cus ive known you long enough to the point where you know i play with you
<+Havoc> Then stop
<+Sgtswordfish> good. its stopped =D
<@bto|HW> You're wrong
<+Sgtswordfish> ^jesus
<@bto|HW> just because you think it yields results
<@bto|HW> doesnt give you a right to harass members
<@bto|HW> just because im saying you cant, doesnt mean you're welcome
<+Sgtswordfish> guys....take it to pm
<@bto|HW> dont make it more then it is
<+Havoc> Ok ill give you waht you want then
<+Havoc> Obviously i seem to be hurting the clan so ill keep shut

<@bto|HW> Theres other ways to do things
<@bto|HW> I'm sure you'll be able to find another way
<+Havoc> like i havn't tried?
* [Randy] is now known as [Randy]bored
<@bto|HW> the argument comes down to this
<+Havoc> I've tried paying people to train
<@bto|HW> you're saying that because its pushing people to train, its ok to harass them
<+Havoc> thats how low ive gotten
<+Havoc> You call it harassing but its so far from it

<@Darth_Magul> not really
<@bto|HW> some people might agree with you
<+Havoc> Please people are too sensitive
<@bto|HW> but obvious a few dont
<@bto|HW> since this is the third time this has happened
<+Havoc> So 3 members have complained about me right?
<+Havoc> Thats what your saying or do you mean something else?

* +pkers210|drew has quit IRC (Connection reset by peero)
<@bto|HW> no
<@bto|HW> three different occasions
<@bto|HW> two as a trial
<@bto|HW> one you were asked to stop
<@bto|HW> you said you would stop
<@bto|HW> you continued
<+Havoc> I said as a trial
<+Havoc> i would stop because i didn't have authority

<@bto|HW> How does being a member give you the right to harass people?
<+Havoc> That's also what lordy said in his pm because i was a trial i could not do tihngs
<@bto|HW> It doesnt matter
<+Sgtswordfish> guys..take it to pm
<@bto|HW> you dont harass people
<+groedius> night <33333333333333
<@bto|HW> member or not
<+Sgtswordfish> night andrew
<+Havoc> So what do i have to be primary leader to be able to "harass" people
<+Havoc> What rank is the appropriate rank

<+Sgtswordfish> i'm going to complain if you guys don't take it to pm -
<@bto|HW> There is no appropriate rank
<+Havoc> So then whats your point of saying just because im a member i can't tell people to train
<+Havoc> If there is no rank then it doesn't matter what i am

<@bto|HW> you can tell people to train
<@bto|HW> but you're getting to the point where you're HARASSING people
<@bto|HW> which is the problem
<@bto|HW> i dont care if you tell people to train
<@bto|HW> but if its again and again and they dont like it, then you shouldnt do it
<+Havoc> Then why don't they just do it
<+groedius> night <33333333333333
<@bto|HW> if you told me to train, I could care less cause I can take it
<+groedius> Sabre_Treky needs 3 wg for his app
<+groedius> Sabre_Treky needs 3 wg for his app
<+groedius> Sabre_Treky needs 3 wg for his app
<@bto|HW> but if you're going people who arent familiar with you and yelling at them to train thats not the way to do it
* +groedius has quit IRC (Client exitedo)
<@bto|HW> and saying "why wont they do it" doesnt justify it either way
<+Havoc> What would you like me to do then bto
<+Havoc> to make everyone happy
<+Havoc> I've tried making events
<+Havoc> tournaments
<+Havoc> Bring back OPH and even pay members to train
<+Havoc> Whats next on my list that i havn't tried

<@bto|HW> I dont know
<+Havoc> I have asked nicely and tried to make people train before with out "harrasing"
<@bto|HW> but what you're doing right now, if its creating drama, isnt the way to do it
<+Havoc> What drama
<+Havoc> honestly i havn't seen it once

<+Sgtswordfish> ^if they complain..they won't come to you
<@bto|HW> this arguement is going around in circles
<@bto|HW> scroll up

<+Havoc> Please
<+Havoc> This isn't drama
<+Havoc> probably the first argument with no cursing or flamign
<+Havoc> WG history right here
<+Rachy_rs> They come to me and complain Omar
<+Havoc> Which is sad


By His Lordship on 28/08/2009
It was sorted.
Admittedly it took me more like 2 minutes, not 30 seconds.

By David on 28/08/2009
He seems to think that because he's not breaking an explicit rule that it's alright.

He also doesn't get that just because there is no obvious drama that doesn't mean there isn't a problem.

He's obviously incredibly short sighted and can't see anything that isn't brought to his immediate attention.

He doesn't see that telling the same people to train, over, and over, and over, and over again is harassment. When you annoy people, you harass them and that's what he doesn't understand.

When you annoy people, they become more and more uninterested in what you're asking them to do, but he feels that forcing people to do something means they'll do it to get him to leave them alone.

Maybe some type of punishment should be done to just reinforce our feeling on the matter?

By Back to Own on 28/08/2009
QUOTE (1colonel1 @ August 27, 2009 10:27 pm)
He seems to think that because he's not breaking an explicit rule that it's alright.

He also doesn't get that just because there is no obvious drama that doesn't mean there isn't a problem.

He's obviously incredibly short sighted and can't see anything that isn't brought to his immediate attention.

He doesn't see that telling the same people to train, over, and over, and over, and over again is harassment. When you annoy people, you harass them and that's what he doesn't understand.

When you annoy people, they become more and more uninterested in what you're asking them to do, but he feels that forcing people to do something means they'll do it to get him to leave them alone.

Maybe some type of punishment should be done to just reinforce our feeling on the matter?

Quoted for truth. My exact points when I was trying to talk to him.

Anyways, I hope the problem is sorted now.

By His Lordship on 29/08/2009
Its sorted.



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