i believe its not the flame that they are giving an example of..but the fact that renegade was nothing more than confrontational. also has a history of this and as you may notice wasn't well liked. eventually you get tired of this and after giving a person so many chances the final outcome is to get shutout. casted away.
one of the main reasons why they said..why don't we get along..to understand each other even if our views differ.
i've personally have learned this lesson from real life experiences. you cast away the people you love by being critical about them and confronting them instead of being direct in your views.
an alternate outcome would have been for renegade to stop putting her views and work for what she believed in without confronting other's views are wrong. i don't know about you guys but among us we aren't reasonable. and i believe the point will be made once people start posting after me trying to make a point. the ugly truth is that there is no point, there's us and we must be courteous and align ourselves within our goals and purposes to the clan as a whole.