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My Personal Respect and Reputation?
By Stokenut on 02/04/2008
I've been putting off making this topic for quite some time. Hoping, quite frankly, that it would cease. However as time has gone on I am finding it harder and harder to suppress the urge to outright ban certain members of WG purely for their attempts to destroy my character in front of the females that come into association with WG in general.
To put it plain and simple, certain males in WG have been contacting the females wishing to join WG and some of the females already in the clan "Warning" them about me. Basically explaining to them that i am a pervert trying to get into their e-panties.
Of course this isn't true and to lay it on the table, yes, the majority of my friends online are female and yes, many of them are damn good looking. I believe that this is making a small number of the males in WG dislike me purely because they can't get any. So they do the next best thing; cockblock me. And yes, even though my intentions are innocent enough with my female friends it does hurt to know that behind my back they are being told things such as "Watch out for Stoke, okay? He's quite the man whore."
At a guess, I'd estimate that I have about 30 good female friends that play runescape. This includes those not in association with WG. Of those, perhaps 20-25 would be "**** worthy" so to speak by the standards of the average bloke. Now, of these I'll hold my hands up and say that I've had phone and/or webcam sex with maybe... 4 or 5 of them. Two or three of those being in WG currently or intros/applicants to WG. I've had two serious online relationships, one with Draken Bitch and another girl called Alma.
I know that several members of WG have taken it upon themselves to warn girls joining WG about me. Allow me to show you the log of a conversation I'm not supposed to have. Hence this being in level 4. My own annotations added in just to clarify certain things.
To put it plain and simple, certain males in WG have been contacting the females wishing to join WG and some of the females already in the clan "Warning" them about me. Basically explaining to them that i am a pervert trying to get into their e-panties.
Of course this isn't true and to lay it on the table, yes, the majority of my friends online are female and yes, many of them are damn good looking. I believe that this is making a small number of the males in WG dislike me purely because they can't get any. So they do the next best thing; cockblock me. And yes, even though my intentions are innocent enough with my female friends it does hurt to know that behind my back they are being told things such as "Watch out for Stoke, okay? He's quite the man whore."
At a guess, I'd estimate that I have about 30 good female friends that play runescape. This includes those not in association with WG. Of those, perhaps 20-25 would be "**** worthy" so to speak by the standards of the average bloke. Now, of these I'll hold my hands up and say that I've had phone and/or webcam sex with maybe... 4 or 5 of them. Two or three of those being in WG currently or intros/applicants to WG. I've had two serious online relationships, one with Draken Bitch and another girl called Alma.
I know that several members of WG have taken it upon themselves to warn girls joining WG about me. Allow me to show you the log of a conversation I'm not supposed to have. Hence this being in level 4. My own annotations added in just to clarify certain things.
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| (12:46:24) * Private message with Groedius ([email protected]) (12:46:24) <Groedius> Heya (12:46:28) <Groedius> Jen (12:46:29) <Groedius> lol (12:46:31) <Lady_Myrna> hi  (12:46:37) <Groedius> Did you speak to aaron today ? (12:46:44) <Lady_Myrna> for a min yes (12:46:48) <Groedius> ooh right (12:46:53) <Lady_Myrna> whats up? (12:46:53) <Groedius> he was looking for you (12:46:57) <Groedius> Well (12:47:07) <Groedius> I dunno if i should be the 1 to tell you .. (12:47:23) <Lady_Myrna> please do lol.. u cant say that and not tell me (12:47:28) <Groedius> Ok if i do (12:47:35) <Groedius> Not a word to any1 (12:47:40) <Lady_Myrna> k (12:47:41) <Groedius> our lil secret ? (12:47:43) <Groedius> Kk (12:47:56) <Groedius> Good (12:47:56) <Groedius> Basically (12:47:59) <Groedius> Stokenut thinks ur his girl kinda thing he wants u (12:48:02) <Groedius> And so does aaron (12:48:14) <Groedius> and aaron thinks u like him (12:48:23) <Lady_Myrna> o.O (12:48:30) <Lady_Myrna> what have they been saying, and where? (12:48:30) <Groedius> And hes kinda crushed because the last girl he liked stokenut stole from him too - He's talking about Alma. A girl i became quite close to who Aaron has had some huge crush on for like 9 months, then blamed me for manging to pick her up like 2 days after meeting her. I then went on to form a relationship with her. (12:48:46) <Groedius> Aaron told me in PM (12:48:55) <Groedius> stokenut told aaron to keep his hands off u My girl friends are like sisters to me. Having so many female friends helps me make a personal "**** list" of guys that go around every chick trying to e-**** them. He's one of them. (12:49:01) <Groedius> on a msn convo (12:49:05) <Groedius> So (12:49:07) <Lady_Myrna> i see.. (12:49:09) <Groedius> they both want u (12:49:11) <Lady_Myrna> lol (12:49:17) <Groedius> and aarons already been crushed by stoke (12:49:30) <Groedius> and i do warn u (12:49:30) <Lady_Myrna> well honestly... i never had any intentions of being anything more than friends with anyone here (12:49:40) <Groedius> stokenut is quite the man whore Here comes the utterly disgraceful character nuke (12:49:48) <Lady_Myrna> oh? (12:50:02) <Groedius> Every1 knows stokenut gets around (12:50:16) <Groedius> lets just say that (12:50:16) <Groedius> Lol (12:50:29) <Groedius> A few people quoted he would **** anything that walks (12:50:41) <Lady_Myrna> gets around... as in how much does he get around? (12:50:52) <Groedius> As in he was with this girl (12:50:56) <Groedius> and they broke up (12:50:59) <Groedius> and he fucked another girl (12:51:07) <Groedius> then got back with first girl (12:51:12) <Groedius> and he was split up for just 24 hours Yeah, so what? (12:51:15) <Groedius> that much (12:51:28) <Groedius> as in like he is ALWAYS with a girl (12:51:41) <Groedius> Whether he be fucking them with a web cam or actually fucking them (12:51:52) <Groedius> thats the kinda guy stokenut is (12:52:12) <Lady_Myrna> i see.. (12:52:29) <Groedius> Anyhows (12:52:31) <Groedius> if i were u (12:52:41) <Groedius> Id just try perhaps and play it straight or somit (12:52:47) <Lady_Myrna> i see. (12:52:52) <Groedius> because stoke and aaron are on the verge of an argument (12:52:58) <Lady_Myrna> stoke and i are good friends. thats all we are. so i think im fine This is true.(12:53:13) <Groedius> K (12:53:48) <Groedius> Because the thing is ur be dragged into the middle of the argument and then asked to choose sides (12:53:49) <Groedius> and **** (12:54:02) <Lady_Myrna> i dont see why it should be an argument (12:54:09) <Groedius> Well there guys (12:54:16) <Lady_Myrna> thats what is stupid about being a girl in online games (12:54:17) <Groedius> its like they both want u kinda thing (12:54:23) <Groedius> both think u want to be with the other (12:54:24) <Lady_Myrna> you talk to guys and be friendly.. and they fight over you. (12:54:24) <Groedius> Lol (12:54:30) <Groedius> Yeah (12:54:31) <Groedius> Weird (12:55:22) <Lady_Myrna> i can handle them though thanks (12:55:31) <Groedius> hehe (12:55:36) <Groedius> slap em back in there place (12:57:02) <Lady_Myrna> im going to be straight with you.. (12:57:12) <Lady_Myrna> i dont e-whore around.. so neither of them are gettting in my pants (12:57:24) <Lady_Myrna> you can let aaron know i dont want anything more than to be friends. (12:57:25) <Groedius> All respect to you tbh (12:57:38) <Groedius> Ill just say u mentioned somit (12:57:38) <Groedius> lol (12:58:22) <Lady_Myrna> kk |
Well there you have it. Now this particular one caused me a lot of problems because when i did seperate with Alma for like a day, the girl i ended up getting with... was her. We phone fucked. Sue me. Groe didn't know when he was telling her but he was telling the girl I'd fucked 2 nights before. He caused me a lot of problems and almost cost me a friendship because it looked like i had screwed her then gone and bragged about it. When what actually happened was i told a friend that i simply "got some last night" the night after and he obviously blabbed to Groedius.
Anyway, my point is, this isn't an isolated case. Infact, upon talking to Rachel, I've found that there is in fact another person going around telling the WG females that i am a threat to them and that they should be wise not to speak to me.
I recall a girl called Bess quite a few months ago stopped talking to me because "Jenny" had told her about me. More recently Rachel told me someone warned her about me but won't tell me who. This just makes me wonder how many more?
This is unacceptable and I will not have my character assassinated. I will likewise not be cockblocked by a bunch of 14 year olds that don't have a clue what they are talking about or who they are talking to.
Yes I have a lot of female friends, I enjoy female company more than male company. I find women easier to talk to. Of course along with being so close to so many girls things naturally happen from time to time. This in no way makes me a bad person and gives the members of WG no right whatsoever to say things behind my back.
It also makes my female friends feel uneasy and in some cases used by me, especially the ones I have fucked that then get told to look out for me. Which is what happened in the demonstrated case.
What can be done about this? Because if this keeps up I refuse to stay in WG, let alone be council. Some sort of rule not to gossip about other members at the risk of being permanently banned perhaps? And what about Groedius? It's already taken every ounce of my good will not to ban the fucker and make a public spectacle of him.
Edit: If so much of a word of this post gets out, I will not be held responsible for my actions. This includes having "a quiet word" with Groe himself. Because he has the biggest mouth I've ever seen and cant keep anything quiet. I'm trusting you here.
By DZ on 02/04/2008
In all honesty I have never really liked what you do, but I have not and will never tell other people what you do. That's your own business and I will keep my thoughts to myself, not tell the public and/or other people. If you keep it out of #wg and #wg_lobby I'm happy.
However I think it would make no sense to ban Groedius, or anyone for that matter for giving 'warnings' to females who want to join. I'm sure you could speak with him and tell him to stop it. Perhaps if you were to change the way to appear to the clan (ie less sex talk in the irc) they wouldn't feel the need to do things like this. I'm going to be honest, I don't recall seeing you in an IRC conversation that didn't involve sex in a long time.
We do however need to think of ways to be more strict with people, but know where to stop. For a while now we, as the council, haven't done much about people who regularly flame and stuff, it's almost always a verbal warning and we're done. We really need to think of a way to enforce rules, but not to be strict.
If you were to leave council we'd be fucked, we're already pretty inactive right now as it is. Without you we'd be even worse, and no one comes close to being a replacement.
However I think it would make no sense to ban Groedius, or anyone for that matter for giving 'warnings' to females who want to join. I'm sure you could speak with him and tell him to stop it. Perhaps if you were to change the way to appear to the clan (ie less sex talk in the irc) they wouldn't feel the need to do things like this. I'm going to be honest, I don't recall seeing you in an IRC conversation that didn't involve sex in a long time.
We do however need to think of ways to be more strict with people, but know where to stop. For a while now we, as the council, haven't done much about people who regularly flame and stuff, it's almost always a verbal warning and we're done. We really need to think of a way to enforce rules, but not to be strict.
If you were to leave council we'd be fucked, we're already pretty inactive right now as it is. Without you we'd be even worse, and no one comes close to being a replacement.
By Abmanju on 02/04/2008
I'm still here, Just a bit inactive because of Assignments, 2 week holiday starts this Friday.
I told you my feelings over MSN when you first posted this Steve. Don't leave the Council, and guys, I've already spoken to Andrew (Groedius), There's no need to speak to him again, and yes, I did get Steve's permission.
~Abs
I told you my feelings over MSN when you first posted this Steve. Don't leave the Council, and guys, I've already spoken to Andrew (Groedius), There's no need to speak to him again, and yes, I did get Steve's permission.
~Abs
By Stokenut on 02/04/2008
The thing about my IRC chats is, I'm just an open guy. I know what i want and like and i don't mind sharing how i feel on sensitive subjects. My general point here is that members can go behind the back of another member, a council member even, and completely slag them off destroying their character and bonds of friendship with certain other members of WG.
By DZ on 04/04/2008
Just throwing this out there...
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[21:07] <12maths> oi, is umm, pur3laugh a girl  ?[21:07] <07Winddancir> yes [21:08] <07Winddancir> now back down. lol [21:08] <12pur3laugh> yes [21:08] <12pur3laugh> I'm a girl [21:08] <12maths> i warn you to stay away from stokenut, i just saw your rl pic[21:08] <12pur3laugh> =o [21:08] <07Winddancir> ^ [21:08] <07Winddancir> yes, watch out for stoke [21:08] <07Winddancir> XD [21:08] <12pur3laugh> why so? [21:08] <12pur3laugh> hehe [21:08] <07Winddancir> btw maths [21:08] <07Winddancir> she thinks stoke is a sweetie [21:08] <07Winddancir> XD [21:08] <12maths> oh dear god.. [21:08] <12pur3laugh> omg. is he not? [21:09] <12pur3laugh> lol [21:09] * carrot166 has quit IRC (Ping timeout) [21:09] <12Saad|Indivi> yeah  [21:09] <07Winddancir> he's lying to all the females [21:09] <12pur3laugh> lol' [21:09] <12Saad|Indivi> Lacy, stay away from Stokenut [21:09] <12pur3laugh> hahahhahaah [21:09] <07Winddancir> that horny bastartd [21:09] <12pur3laugh> i cant stop laughing. lm |
Don't know if they were kidding or not but whatever
By Stokenut on 04/04/2008
That makes me fucking sick.
Lacy is a very close friend of mine and I'm the one that fucking got her to intro to WG. They have no right to say **** like that. I've FUCKING HAD IT with people taking the piss out of me and in general trying to cockblock me.
I can't believe they said that... I mean I'm really close to her as a friend, y'know? I spent 2 hours on the phone with her just last night.
Lacy is a very close friend of mine and I'm the one that fucking got her to intro to WG. They have no right to say **** like that. I've FUCKING HAD IT with people taking the piss out of me and in general trying to cockblock me.
I can't believe they said that... I mean I'm really close to her as a friend, y'know? I spent 2 hours on the phone with her just last night.
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