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By Jayson on 07/12/2009
Ok so here's the situation.

Like 2 months ago i posted a topic about a friend stealing my girl.

so ya, last thursday, he dumped her via msn (fgt)

so i was talking to her, and to make her feel better, i said i would take her to the movies on wednesday (2 days from this post)

so when the guy heard this, he decided he would meet her, apoligize, and make her breakfast, and now they are back together.

Now to spice things up abit.

I met another girl at girl #1's party. This girl likes me. I wouldnt mind her, but she is mostly looks, but not a great personality like #1.

So i know if i do choose girl #2, as soon as girl #1 is single again, i might leave girl #2 for girl #1

WOMEN! WHY CANT #1 RELISE THE GUY IS A DOUCHEBAG

oh, and im like 90% the guy is cheating on her, so thats why he dumped her hashdown.gif.png



o btw, im still going to the city with #1 on wedneday

By XLord_CaimX on 07/12/2009
"We spend 9 months coming to be in them, we spend a good couple hours fighting our way out, then after about 10 years we start trying to get back in for the rest of our lives"

By Elyxiatic on 07/12/2009
Go for #1
If she's smart she'll eventually realize the other guy isn't worth keeping.

By Tezza Rulz12 on 07/12/2009
Looks like #1 is considering you since she didnt call it off (: What are yous doing in city?

Your friends' a douchebag zzz

and one piece of advice, dont watch zombieland (: went there and was a piece of crap zzz

By Bambaleo on 07/12/2009
i would tell to #1 to go f herself and go with #2.

By Geohood on 07/12/2009
She's already left u once, just get over it and move on it'll save you alot of troubles.

By Bassism on 07/12/2009
QUOTE   Geohood @ December 07, 2009 09:58 am)

She's already left u once, just get over it and move on it'll save you alot of troubles.

This guy speaks truth.

If you really want her, be a prick like your friend apparently is. It gets girls. You're like, 18. Chances are you wont end up marrying this girl. At that age girls are always interested in the bad guy, any who say otherwise are either part of the 1% that's not, or are lying.

Believe me, I'm speaking from experience, if you want to get in this girls pants then be a douchebag like your friend. If you want to be with this girl and marry her, be nice, be you, be patient. It'll take about 3-4 years before she starts to be interested in actual nice guys.

By rachellove9 on 07/12/2009
My advice is scrap both of these girls. Find one that has brains, personality and nice looks. To be happy it is better to have a partner that is totally into you and not into your friend at all.

By Geohood on 07/12/2009
QUOTE   Bassism @ December 07, 2009 05:32 am)

QUOTE   Geohood
December 07, 2009 09:58 am

She's already left u once, just get over it and move on it'll save you alot of troubles.

This guy speaks truth.

If you really want her, be a prick like your friend apparently is. It gets girls. You're like, 18. Chances are you wont end up marrying this girl. At that age girls are always interested in the bad guy, any who say otherwise are either part of the 1% that's not, or are lying.

Believe me, I'm speaking from experience, if you want to get in this girls pants then be a douchebag like your friend. If you want to be with this girl and marry her, be nice, be you, be patient. It'll take about 3-4 years before she starts to be interested in actual nice guys.

Wow you're spot on LMAO

By Dreemdevil on 07/12/2009
Amen Bass.

By Jayson on 07/12/2009
QUOTE   rachellove9 @ December 07, 2009 09:10 pm)

My advice is scrap both of these girls. Find one that has brains, personality and nice looks. To be happy it is better to have a partner that is totally into you and not into your friend at all.

thats her smile.gif

and i havnt gone out with her before, we had a thing going, and he knew it, and he said he wouldnt do anything, but he did.

By Lee on 07/12/2009
Meet up with #1 wednesday, get her back to your crib, bottle of wine, film..fuck her brains out. Dump her.

Meet up with #2 when #1 leaves wednesday night, and then another bottle of wine, a film, shag her brains out. Dump her.

#1 will realise you are a good fuck, but be hurt over the whole matter. Do some sucking up, say you was feeling really shitty and stuff. And like apologise. She will think your a really nice guy. Get rid of your friend, and come runnning to you. Winner.

#2 will realise you are a good fuck. But wont care that she was dumped and still be on your case, about sex...

This way..


You get #1 as gf. #2 as fuck buddy fo'life.



WINNER>


By Jayson on 07/12/2009
QUOTE   Leecable @ December 07, 2009 11:51 pm)

Meet up with #1 wednesday, get her back to your crib, bottle of wine, film..fuck her brains out. Dump her.

Meet up with #2 when #1 leaves wednesday night, and then another bottle of wine, a film, shag her brains out. Dump her.

#1 will realise you are a good fuck, but be hurt over the whole matter. Do some sucking up, say you was feeling really shitty and stuff. And like apologise. She will think your a really nice guy. Get rid of your friend, and come runnning to you. Winner.

#2 will realise you are a good fuck. But wont care that she was dumped and still be on your case, about sex...

This way..


You get #1 as gf. #2 as fuck buddy fo'life.



WINNER>

too bad it doesnt work like that irl hashdown.gif.png

By Quikdrawjoe on 07/12/2009
Find girl #3

By Majeic on 07/12/2009
I like Lee's idea.


By WG_Keanu on 07/12/2009
QUOTE   rachellove9
December 07, 2009 12:10 pm

My advice is scrap both of these girls.  Find one that has brains, personality and nice looks.

Because what Lee's suggesting doesn't work in the real world, I say this ^.

Wait... brains, personality AND nice looks? Do girls like that even exist?

And where? blink.gif

By Billy on 07/12/2009
QUOTE   WG_Keanu @ December 07, 2009 03:50 pm)

QUOTE   rachellove9
December 07, 2009 12:10 pm

My advice is scrap both of these girls.  Find one that has brains, personality and nice looks.

Because what Lee's suggesting doesn't work in the real world, I say this ^.

Wait... brains, personality AND nice looks? Do girls like that even exist?

And where? blink.gif

I know plenty smile.gif



Never go back. If shes dumped you once, whats to say she'll do it again, and to top it off it was for 1 of your mates. What when she meets some of your other mates?

Just have some harmless fun with #1, let her no you dont want nothing serious and just hope she feels the same, most girls will just because they think they can change you, but when they cant they just bitch and u move on biggrin.gif

By Sxe Asher on 07/12/2009
haha I like Lee's idea.

I would talk to girl #1 still and maybe wait until DB and her break up again and then go for her? in the meantime get girl #2.

or Gamma-hydroxybutyrate. it works wonders sleep.gif

By Littledanish on 07/12/2009
lmao if it works like LEE said over in the U.K. im movin there... but on the other hand it doesn't work that way here so i would say go with rachy's idea.

By WG_Keanu on 07/12/2009
QUOTE   Littledanish @ December 07, 2009 09:04 pm)

lmao if it works like LEE said over in the U.K. im movin there... but on the other hand it doesn't work that way here so i would say go with rachy's idea.

Does it fuck work in the UK... 98% of girls here lack personality anyway and try to make up for their lack of looks with incredibly short haircuts and so much makeup and fake tan they look like tangerines blink.gif

I wouldn't even DARE try what Lee suggested here blink.gif

By Chimpy on 07/12/2009
Your right hand will never fail you.

By Billy on 07/12/2009
QUOTE   WG_Keanu @ December 07, 2009 08:09 pm)

QUOTE   Littledanish
December 07, 2009 09:04 pm

lmao if it works like LEE said over in the U.K. im movin there... but on the other hand it doesn't work that way here so i would say go with rachy's idea.

Does it fuck work in the UK... 98% of girls here lack personality anyway and try to make up for their lack of looks with incredibly short haircuts and so much makeup and fake tan they look like tangerines blink.gif

I wouldn't even DARE try what Lee suggested here blink.gif

You just know the wrong girls Keanu, every girl has the posibility to have a good personality, you just have to bring it out of them smile.gif

And as for looks, 90% of girls aren't good looking without make-up, thats why most wear it, even if its only a little.

By rachellove9 on 07/12/2009
QUOTE   ShavenGooch @ December 07, 2009 04:11 pm)

QUOTE   WG_Keanu
December 07, 2009 08:09 pm

               
             
QUOTE  Littledanish
December 07, 2009 09:04 pm

lmao if it works like LEE said over in the U.K. im movin there... but on the other hand it doesn't work that way here so i would say go with rachy's idea.

Does it fuck work in the UK... 98% of girls here lack personality anyway and try to make up for their lack of looks with incredibly short haircuts and so much makeup and fake tan they look like tangerines blink.gif

I wouldn't even DARE try what Lee suggested here blink.gif

You just know the wrong girls Keanu, every girl has the posibility to have a good personality, you just have to bring it out of them smile.gif

And as for looks, 90% of girls aren't good looking without make-up, thats why most wear it, even if its only a little.

Lol I rarely wear makeup and I get hit on a good bit even at the grocery store or mall. RC, my bro, takes notes on it. lol We had a bet that I couldn't get someone randoms WOW acct name at the mall on a Friday night. I won. It is not all about looks anyway, sometimes it is about the way you walk, smile, smell or your voice tones.

Look for someone fun spirited and nice. Most of the time guys are owned the moment a woman takes her shirt off anyway. If a woman wears a dress, you all lose. Your voices change and you stand up straighter and pay much closer attention. It is what I notice.

I still think forget these girls for now anyway. You might want to go back after #1 later, and if they are boy collectors you don't have a chance if you date her friend. Go out with someone outside of her circle of friends.

Make a list of must have this . . . then look in your yearbook and get a list of girls that fit that. I'm sure you can get plenty of dates that way.

By Kung Man149 on 07/12/2009
tell your friend to back off or hit him hell its your call

By Kyle on 07/12/2009
Stick it in both poopers

By Sxe Asher on 08/12/2009
QUOTE   Aizbildnis @ July 10, 2009 11:26 pm)

Stick it in both poopers

+1

girls are confusing. get used to it.

By Fullmetal792 on 08/12/2009
QUOTE   Quikdrawjoe @ December 07, 2009 09:46 am)

Find girl #3

This.

And then start a game show like the one at the end of Mallrats to find out which one works best with you. Oh, you'll need to write up some really cheesy questions and disguise your voice so they don't realize its you.

Its either this or try Lee's idea.

By txtawkin on 08/12/2009
QUOTE   Caimwargod @ December 07, 2009 02:23 am)

"We spend 9 months coming to be in them, we spend a good couple hours fighting our way out, then after about 10 years we start trying to get back in for the rest of our lives"

lololololololol!! laugh.gif

By txtawkin on 08/12/2009
whew......"wipes tears from my eyes......."

okay, seriously. Why are you wasting your time with either one of those girls? Are there only 2 girls in your town, or are you too lazy to find some worth going out with?? dry.gif

By Mangomaniac2 on 08/12/2009
QUOTE   rachellove9 @ December 07, 2009 10:27 pm)

Make a list of must have this . . . then look in your yearbook and get a list of girls that fit that. I'm sure you can get plenty of dates that way.

Seems a bit creepy, going through 500 photos woeh.gif

Its funny to see the discrepancy between male advice and female's (Rachel).

No one even mentioned if you truly liked this girl (girl #1). If so, I'd say give her a chance, go to the city with her on Wed and all, but don't get your hopes of too high. She went back to her cheating boyfriend and can't move on, so its her loss. Seems harsh, but in the end, if you decide not to bother with this girl, then you might have less problems. But do what your heart tells you to (and your brain).

By WG_Keanu on 08/12/2009
QUOTE   ShavenGooch
December 07, 2009 10:11 pm

               
             
QUOTE  WG_Keanu
December 07, 2009 08:09 pm

               
             
QUOTE  Littledanish
December 07, 2009 09:04 pm

lmao if it works like LEE said over in the U.K. im movin there... but on the other hand it doesn't work that way here so i would say go with rachy's idea.

Does it fuck work in the UK... 98% of girls here lack personality anyway and try to make up for their lack of looks with incredibly short haircuts and so much makeup and fake tan they look like tangerines blink.gif

I wouldn't even DARE try what Lee suggested here blink.gif

You just know the wrong girls Keanu, every girl has the posibility to have a good personality, you just have to bring it out of them smile.gif

And as for looks, 90% of girls aren't good looking without make-up, thats why most wear it, even if its only a little.

I prefer 1) the girls who have a nice personality to begin with (In 6 years in England I have met <10) and 2) the girls who look nice, if not normal, WITHOUT makeup and prefer their natural look rather than trying to hide behind cosmetics (I have met NONE in real life). Besides, unless you catch them coming out of the shower we're never gonna know if the 90% look any good without makeup or not laugh.gif

/end off topic lol

By Kung Man149 on 08/12/2009
QUOTE   WG_Keanu @ December 08, 2009 05:12 am)

QUOTE   ShavenGooch
December 07, 2009 10:11 pm

               
             
QUOTE  WG_Keanu
December 07, 2009 08:09 pm

               
             
QUOTE  Littledanish
December 07, 2009 09:04 pm

lmao if it works like LEE said over in the U.K. im movin there... but on the other hand it doesn't work that way here so i would say go with rachy's idea.

Does it fuck work in the UK... 98% of girls here lack personality anyway and try to make up for their lack of looks with incredibly short haircuts and so much makeup and fake tan they look like tangerines blink.gif

I wouldn't even DARE try what Lee suggested here blink.gif

You just know the wrong girls Keanu, every girl has the posibility to have a good personality, you just have to bring it out of them smile.gif

And as for looks, 90% of girls aren't good looking without make-up, thats why most wear it, even if its only a little.

I prefer 1) the girls who have a nice personality to begin with (In 6 years in England I have met <10) and 2) the girls who look nice, if not normal, WITHOUT makeup and prefer their natural look rather than trying to hide behind cosmetics (I have met NONE in real life). Besides, unless you catch them coming out of the shower we're never gonna know if the 90% look any good without makeup or not lol.gif

/end off topic lol

sir you have no idea what i've seen kay english chicks are FUCKIN' hawt k stfu lol

By Jayson on 08/12/2009
this is the most active topic on the forums.

discuss.

By Jayson on 09/12/2009
bump

she didnt come to the movies because her boyfriend said she couldnt.

i think he is a douchebag and deserves to get hit. Y/N

By Sum-41xx on 09/12/2009
QUOTE   WG_Keanu @ December 07, 2009 03:50 pm)

Wait... brains, personality AND nice looks? Do girls like that even exist?

And where? blink.gif

My girl friend is like that so they do exist.

Anyways.... on another note. I don't think any of this advice is completely worth taking to heart, mainly because we have no idea what "you want" in a girl. You're saying that girl #1 has personality which you like. And then girl #2 which is "meh"-- this is what I understand of things. So do you want personality, looks, and intelligence? Well then the best place to find one of those is through a friend. Maybe a friend girlfriends friend or something. I can guarantee that odds are really against you to find one of those type of girls in a club or at a bar. A friends house part is slightly more likely but still against your odds. If you looking for looks an personality however then, these kinda girls can be found at bars and clubs for sure, I'd say you get more personality at a bar, and better looks at a club tongue.gif hehe.

Now if YOU were ME then this is what I'd do. I personally think Girl #1 screwed things up so I'd dish her out of the picture. I'd give #2 a chance, see how things go. If she doesn't work out then move on. But a rule in my book is never go after lost booty unless you know that you'll always find treasure there. In other words, never go back for a girl unless you 100% know that she's worth it and you know that you have a chance. That can apply both for a serious relationship or just a friend with benefits tongue.gif Again, all depends what you're looking for...

By Jayson on 09/12/2009
yea im thinking i might go after #2

If #1 wants anything from me she can work for it

By ArSeNaLfAn32 on 09/12/2009
Some of the inhumane and immature shit on this thread sickens me to admit that you guys are human beings. Using girls and playing mind games? Fuck that. Tell girl #1 that you want to be with her. Anything else is cowardly, impulsive, and selfish as a human being.

By Jayson on 09/12/2009
QUOTE   ArSeNaLfAn32
December 09, 2009 04:07 pm

Some of the inhumane and immature shit on this thread sickens me to admit that you guys are human beings. Using girls and playing mind games? Fuck that. Tell girl #1 that you want to be with her. Anything else is cowardly, impulsive, and selfish as a human being.

i have told her. but she likes the other guy for some reason, even tho he is 2 years younger than her. she just finished school, he has 2 more years of it.

and obviously glenn, im not treating them as objects, or i would have just done what my penis tells me and used #2 straight away.

and yea, im not going to brag, but im a pretty intelligant guy, and she isnt that intelligent, but she has a great personality and thats what i want mainly in a girl. idc about looks.

but i dont want to hurt her by going out with her, and then changing my mind if something comes up with #1

By Kiwi011 on 09/12/2009
fuck #2, ignore #1, she will get jealous, then fuck them both at the same time.

By Sum-41xx on 09/12/2009
QUOTE   U Is Wat @ December 09, 2009 06:12 am)

QUOTE   ArSeNaLfAn32
December 09, 2009 04:07 pm

Some of the inhumane and immature shit on this thread sickens me to admit that you guys are human beings. Using girls and playing mind games? Fuck that. Tell girl #1 that you want to be with her. Anything else is cowardly, impulsive, and selfish as a human being.

i have told her. but she likes the other guy for some reason, even tho he is 2 years younger than her. she just finished school, he has 2 more years of it.

and obviously glenn, im not treating them as objects, or i would have just done what my penis tells me and used #2 straight away.

and yea, im not going to brag, but im a pretty intelligant guy, and she isnt that intelligent, but she has a great personality and thats what i want mainly in a girl. idc about looks.

but i dont want to hurt her by going out with her, and then changing my mind if something comes up with #1

I think you should go with #2. #1 isn't ready for you and might never be. Just stick with #2 and see how it goes. For all you know you might end up really liking her; maybe even more than #1. And if #1 comes back in the picture while your with #2 then too bad for her. You've been put in a position like this, so if things don't work out with this other dude (which seems really likely) then that's too bad for her. She's setting herself up for disaster and you've opened yourself up to her and she still in a split second is able to leave you once more. It seems like she's immature and in my opinion: DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. #2 hasn't screwed anything up, she might be well worth your effort.

By Mangomaniac2 on 10/12/2009
QUOTE   Sum-41xx
December 09, 2009 05:24 am

But a rule in my book is never go after lost booty unless you know that you'll always find treasure there.

Best quote of the topic biglaugh.gif

EDIT: Also, since girl #1 didn't show up, I'd say just don't bother with her anymore.

By Sithofwookie on 10/12/2009
WHO SAYS YOU CAN'T HAVE BOTH?!?!?!?!

By Jayson on 10/12/2009
QUOTE   Dr Von Dark @ December 10, 2009 04:17 pm)

WHO SAYS YOU CAN'T HAVE BOTH?!?!?!?!

them (N)

By Sithofwookie on 10/12/2009
QUOTE   U Is Wat @ December 09, 2009 10:22 pm)

QUOTE   Dr Von Dark
December 10, 2009 04:17 pm

WHO SAYS YOU CAN'T HAVE BOTH?!?!?!?!

them (N)

Then forget them #

By Billy on 10/12/2009
QUOTE   WG_Keanu @ December 08, 2009 10:12 am)

QUOTE   ShavenGooch
December 07, 2009 10:11 pm

               
             
QUOTE  WG_Keanu
December 07, 2009 08:09 pm

               
             
QUOTE  Littledanish
December 07, 2009 09:04 pm

lmao if it works like LEE said over in the U.K. im movin there... but on the other hand it doesn't work that way here so i would say go with rachy's idea.

Does it fuck work in the UK... 98% of girls here lack personality anyway and try to make up for their lack of looks with incredibly short haircuts and so much makeup and fake tan they look like tangerines blink.gif

I wouldn't even DARE try what Lee suggested here blink.gif

You just know the wrong girls Keanu, every girl has the posibility to have a good personality, you just have to bring it out of them smile.gif

And as for looks, 90% of girls aren't good looking without make-up, thats why most wear it, even if its only a little.

I prefer 1) the girls who have a nice personality to begin with (In 6 years in England I have met <10) and 2) the girls who look nice, if not normal, WITHOUT makeup and prefer their natural look rather than trying to hide behind cosmetics (I have met NONE in real life). Besides, unless you catch them coming out of the shower we're never gonna know if the 90% look any good without makeup or not lol.gif

/end off topic lol

And this is why you will never get laid.

By Hasubunny on 10/12/2009
Best advise for you...

Ditch both girls, save your money come to Australia and you'll have NO PROBLEMS!

By Dorcha3377 on 11/12/2009
Hasu, he is in Australia

By Jayson on 11/12/2009
QUOTE   Hasubunny @ December 11, 2009 08:17 am)

Best advise for you...

Ditch both girls, save your money come to Australia and you'll have NO PROBLEMS!

ya, already in australia hashdown.gif.png

maybe if your a girl set me up ya biggrin.gif

infact, meeting #3 today so should be cool

By Hasubunny on 11/12/2009
QUOTE   U Is Wat
July 14, 2009 01:29 am

               
             
QUOTE  Hasubunny
December 11, 2009 08:17 am

Best advise for you...

Ditch both girls, save your money come to Australia and you'll have NO PROBLEMS!

ya, already in australia hashdown.gif.png

maybe if your a girl set me up ya biggrin.gif

infact, meeting #3 today so should be cool

Man... who the hell are you hanging around with. You need to get in my crowd tongue.gif
I'll hook you up smile.gif

Oh ya I'm a guy. Don't ask about why my name is Hasubunny. Long story.

By Jayson on 11/12/2009
QUOTE   Hasubunny @ December 11, 2009 11:59 am)

QUOTE   U Is Wat
July 14, 2009 01:29 am

               
             
QUOTE  Hasubunny
December 11, 2009 08:17 am

Best advise for you...

Ditch both girls, save your money come to Australia and you'll have NO PROBLEMS!

ya, already in australia hashdown.gif.png

maybe if your a girl set me up ya biggrin.gif

infact, meeting #3 today so should be cool

Man... who the hell are you hanging around with. You need to get in my crowd tongue.gif
I'll hook you up smile.gif

Oh ya I'm a guy. Don't ask about why my name is Hasubunny. Long story.

what state you from?

we got a few aussies all over

im from vic tho

By I K0 Pure I on 11/12/2009
#1 is over you, leave her. She seems like a complete tard..

By rachellove9 on 11/12/2009
You have to post how #3 is. lol Now I want to know.

By VEPHYSAURAS on 13/12/2009
Go after #10

By Jayson on 13/12/2009
number #3 is really smart, so thats why we have been friends for ages.

we have alot of fun together, but i only really see use as friends (N)

By Hasubunny on 13/12/2009
QUOTE   U Is Wat @ July 14, 2009 02:40 am)

QUOTE   Hasubunny
December 11, 2009 11:59 am

               
             
QUOTE  U Is Wat
July 14, 2009 01:29 am

               
             
QUOTE  Hasubunny
December 11, 2009 08:17 am

Best advise for you...

Ditch both girls, save your money come to Australia and you'll have NO PROBLEMS!

ya, already in australia hashdown.gif.png

maybe if your a girl set me up ya biggrin.gif

infact, meeting #3 today so should be cool

Man... who the hell are you hanging around with. You need to get in my crowd tongue.gif
I'll hook you up smile.gif

Oh ya I'm a guy. Don't ask about why my name is Hasubunny. Long story.

what state you from?

we got a few aussies all over

im from vic tho

x2 - vic as well.

hardly anyone online when i'm on...

By Jayson on 13/12/2009
ffs, come on irc, all the aussies talking n sht.

im on 24/7.

ill add you in game now as well

By Jayson on 25/12/2009
this is double post, old topic bump worthy.

the faggot dumped #1, today, christmas day.

this shall be a "i told you so" moment.

dont know if i will try anything with her, me and #2 have gotten pretty tight over the last few weeks, def prob help her out of this crappy relationship tho



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