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[Moved] Starz

By Starzhine on 27/04/2008
Kristy has asked me, her husband, to write this farewell because she finds it difficult to express her extreme disappointment and unhappiness. It's about time she quit Wilderness Guardians, in my opinion. For her sake please allow her “Emeritus” status, and then just don't bother her anymore.



This is Kristy speaking, and if I get busted after agreeing to let my husband handle this, oh well. He loves me! Please read my post further down before getting all bent out of shape, it will give you some perspective on the post.


By Robertw56 on 28/04/2008
Wow uh, just wow, I don't have any response to that =\

Good luck in the future Starz.

By Pseudomage0 on 28/04/2008
Didnt know starz all that well cuz im a newer member, but from what i did know of her is that she was very cool and supportive. GL with rl starz

By Gibble00 on 28/04/2008
Epic topic right here.

I'm telling my IRL friends about this one.

Edit: C'mon, Runescape is a game, we're just having fun, it's a hobby. A lot of us really respected Starz. Don't take it out on us, it's up to the individual to decide what lengths he/she will go to.

By Colinwarrior on 28/04/2008
Yeah, you sound real tough behind that computer screen.

How about you take up your issues with the particular members that offended here, rather than blatantly insulting the clan as a whole.

By Tmal34 on 28/04/2008
Are you shitting me right now?

By General199 on 28/04/2008
Dont know any of this and dont want to get into it.
Farewell and hope everything goes good.

By Tmal34 on 28/04/2008
Nice one editing out the insults.

By Spicy63 on 28/04/2008
Original Post was edited which I assume is where all the Violent Posts are coming from.

Until I know what happened I won't respond.

By Gibble00 on 28/04/2008
Tmal, I got it copied.

By Kiwi011 on 28/04/2008
I'm sorry, I truely am. I don't understand what we did or what i did. I have always looked up to Starz as a role model and a mentor and just a figure to respect because she new more about life than I did. I never really got to know her but I always thought she was nice, and cool.

Could you tell us/me what we did to hurt her and you?

I have never thought of myself as selfish and I think your looking down on us. When you had your stroke, and Starz came by and told us and aske dus to pray for you i actually went to church and prayed for you and that you would be ok. I don't no if thats selfish or wrong, but I barely even try to pray during mass, just kind of sit there, and that was a time i actually did.

What did we do to her.....again. How did WG, any or all members, never care about what she did, or how she felt. She was vocal about her feelings and when she talked about them, I guarantee most of WG tried to help her or console her.

I may not no her that well, or at all. But she is a person I respect and care about none the less. What happened and what did we do I feel like **** and don't even know what I or wg did to her.

WG is my family, and is a family to most that try to be. I am quite sure she viewed us as part of her family, and Her as part of ours.

How did we bother her? Again I ask, because I am quite sure no one her would intentionally disrespect someone as kind and loving as she was to us.



P.S-If you ever read this Starz or your husband is kind enough to tell you. Gl in rl and I hope you forgive us for whatever we did. Because, well I am kind of amazed at how you married a husband as rude as you did when you are one of the nicest and most kind and loving people I have ever met in my life. And thats saying something.

By Tmal34 on 28/04/2008
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Kristy has asked me, her husband, to write this farewell because she finds it difficult to express her extreme disappointment and unhappiness. It's about time she quit Wilderness Guardians, in my opinion. Her relationship to your toxic clan has done her no good, and harmed her relationship with me. The upsets and disappointments she's experienced in Wild Guard have echoed into her personal life and I am calling an end to it. I had a brush with Wilderness Guardians and it only took one day's worth of abuse and neglect to realize what a selfish collection of egotists you are. WG is nothing more than a tool for arrogant self-important power-lovers to use for your own gratification. Kristy has been used and abused for years by silly kids who don't care at all about feelings, loyalty, or commitment. The vast majority of you WG members aren't worth the time and effort she's put into the clan and only a few of you will remain her friends in the future because the rest of you don't know her at all and you never have. You've never even tried. For her sake please allow her “Emeritus” status, and then just don't bother her anymore.



There's the original message and his true feelings for those concerned.


By Gibble00 on 28/04/2008
Ah, you got it too, nice.

Edit: I'm gonna need someone to tell me how I'm an "arrogant self-important power-lover".

By Pseudomage0 on 28/04/2008
Tbh but im going to agree with kiwi on this, WG is seriously like one big family, when one member of the clan is upset most of the time everyone stops to listen or atleast most ppl do in order to calm them down or make them feel better. Now i seriously doubt anyone in the clan would do something to intentionally hurt an own member of this clan *family*

By Spicy63 on 28/04/2008
Since I've been in active these past months I don't know exatly what happened between Starzhine and the Members of WG.

Though I can't even begin to think how any members would make her feel that way. Maybe one member had a problem with her, or something like that. But WG as a whole respected Starzhine.

I just can't beleive the Wg Members to do anything disrespect her, nor do I tihnk any truly did.

By ArSeNaLfAn32 on 28/04/2008
I'm sorry you feel that way. I knew Star a little bit. I didn't realize we had that much of an effect on her. Most of us are in our teens. We joke around and play together. We barely do anything serious. Goodbye Star.

By Sonixpber on 28/04/2008
You're whole post sounds like a flamebait in order to get us to prove exactly what you've been saying.

Anyways I barely new Starz, its too bad this had to happen.

By T Dwag on 28/04/2008
Didn't see the original post but I can say we'll miss you Star. You were a mother to WG in the past, and you were always a caring active member. It is just a game, we play to have fun and nothing more. I can't imagine who would have a problem with Starzhine though, she was loved and I hope she knows that.



Good luck wherever you go Starz.
Brandon

By Back to Own on 28/04/2008
I must admit I did not know her well. She was my mentor when I joined, but I rarely talked to her.

I dont know how much you know about WG. For all I know, you may know WG more then me. But you're wrong. The fact that you call us "Egoistic" and "Self-important power lovers", and that we know NOTHING about commitment, respect, and loyalty tells me otherwise. You don't know us. I'm suprised that you were so quick to judge.

WG isnt just a clan. We arent a bunch of "arrogant" children playing a game. WG is family. Although we may fight occasionally, we all care about each other. Its what sets us apart. If you asked her, im sure she would tell you she considered us family as well. You wouldnt understand why a couple of idiots would consider WG family, but I wouldnt expect you to.

Although we dont show it, we appreciate everything that Starz has done.

You haven't said exactly why Starz quit. However, personally, I dont think you have a right to judge her relationship with individuals in WG. But looking at the majority of the post, I see your post as a personal attack against WG.

I respect your decision, and I only wish I could hear from starz herself. Hopefully, you will be able to treat her better then we have.

To Starz: Forgive us for whatever we did, and know that WG loves you. We wont forget you, and we hope that you wont forget us.

Good Luck.

By Starzhine on 28/04/2008
This is Kristy speaking!

T'mal I counted you and Gibble among my friends. I asked Ray to remove the inflammatory part of the post (and know that if he knew I was writing this post it would cause a fight.) Why did you put it back. Don't you know it just proves his point. Just let me retire in peace. I love WG and always will, but he, who is my life's soul mate and knows me almost as well as God, was angry at the anguish I was going through trying to come back from inactivity.

Now I say to you what I said to him please remove that part of the post I can not bear to hurt people. That is why I asked him to write it in the first place, because I could not. Forgive me my weakness, if it is a weakness too care to much.

After a very difficult period of time in life, which included the passing of my father'n'law I looked to the clan for community and fun, but unfortunately others must have been having a bad day as well, for it was not to be had.

So I respectfully and for the sake of old friendships past, ask you to please remove that post quoting what my husband originally said. He was angry. He loves me!

Let me retire in peace, don't make it any harder on me!

WG wub.gif

PS To me once family always family, as emeritus I will still be around!

By Stokenut on 28/04/2008
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[03:41:08] *priv* Starzhine: Please delete the whole post. It is causing too many problems and I just can't do it! I will deal with my husband. He loves me, doesn't always understand me, but we are all only human after all!
[03:41:45] *priv* Starzhine: I can't talk because he will know. I want to deal with it when I feel stronger.  Thank you


Moved here just in case it's needed.

By His Lordship on 28/04/2008
Well her husband's a bastard.
How could he say WG of all clans has no respect for human emotions?
Of clan clans, that's what WG's best at.

By Abmanju on 28/04/2008
That might not be the case.
He's never played Rs, and he has no clue what clans are about.
In his perspective, we're just using Kristy as one person of our clan to come to wars when we need her. He thinks that playing a pixelated game and wasting your life is ridiculous. He thinks we don't take that into consideration.
Although he forgets that it was all Kristy's choice - We have never forced her out of inactivity, we never forced her to join Wg, we have never intended to hurt her.
Although, I must say, I think there's more to Kristy than we think, she's probably going through a lot of pain by playing Rs & Coming to Rs Wars, however has never come to us and talked about it.

Ah well, Kristy was a great person and I think on behalf on her husband & her wishes and not harm their relationship, I think we shall just grant her Emeritus. Emeritus is a loyal and respected to position, So I think there won't be any problems.

I also don't think we should ask her to come to wars or anything.

~Abs



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