The Human Jackhammer

LOL I had breakfast with two friends today and they went on and on about their lovemates. It seems they don't get into the jackhammer mode of sex. I lost control laughing at them. lol

It came out that men have this thing about being rushed as boys to masturbate quickly cause they don't want to get caught. I suggested to my friends they just tell their human jackhammers to get the pumping happy guys on the right track. lol Somehow they said they thought they might get shut off. What do you think?

If it were me I'd be somewhat honest and say something like start slow and when I have finished go for it. Or maybe take control of the situation in the beginning and then let them have their fun. I got told by my friends that I am way to selfish in bed. But dang I thought a guy would want the girl to like it too.

So set me straight on being the human jackhammer. Is this just how it is or did they just not train their guys to be good in bed? Both guys I have been with have been super. Now I'm thinking there may never be a number 3. LOL (My friend's stories were a bit scary and it seemed very unpleasant.)

I always make sure my gf has an orgasm or two. Its not selfish to want to orgasm too - even if the male blows his load first he can just go down on her after.

To me sex is all about making her orgasm, boosts the ego, if I happen to orgasm first when I super horny oh well, but I always make her orgasm atleast once.

Its not selfish, its fair.

Whats not fair is when I do all the work lols.

even if i bust like a while in i keep going haha

lol at the jackhammer but i think that the guy hasta make he cum before he does, its harder for a man to continue the enjoyment after he cums cus its just the way it is but women are crazy for haven the multiples lol so her first and me after

No matter what I do I just can't seem to be able to control myself. Some nights I could go for hours and make it insane for her and other nights I'm like.. broken or something and last under 30 minutes (which really pisses me off).

Hmm, I don't know if it was about being rushed as teens to finish before getting caught.

It's just that faster feels better for me.
I don't know what other guys think.

I have to make the conscious effort to slow down, because slower doesn't feel as good... well, it's a different sort of good.

Training to enjoy the moment... yeah important.