Truth about Lacy

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Nothing has changed, We all have secrets we dont wish to tell. I dont think anyone would disagree with me.

Thank you for telling us the truth, it shows a lot about your character.



We still love you.

Wow Lacy. Of course I'll forgive you. Everybody has their reasons for keeping personal facts personal. You did what you had to do and felt it necessary for you to be happy, and that's what matters, right? A game is meant to make you happy, after all.

It takes a lot of guts to admit something like that, and I truly respect you for it.

- Vince.

Wow thats a shock but you shouldnt be judged for it

I Still Wub You <3

And who ever that person is can go F**k Themselves

Lacy, I can relate somewhat to what you have said, I will talk to you in a pm about it later.

This will in no way effect how i feel about you.

ill be honest with you. i did not see this coming. but i do not see you any differently. you will always be teh same old person to me. the thing i like and enjoy most about you is yoru funny and have a fantasic personality. so since thats all the same i can't abandon you. i wouldnt do that. we need your freindship just as much as you need ours. i am forever in your debt for your un dying devotion and care you show and give to each and every one of us. i hope this is convincing enough i sure tried, your my friend for ever whether your cathie or lacy or anyone. i will continue to enjoy your company as im sure everyone else will.


APOLOGY ACCEPTED <3 ^.^

I really don't think that you should have felt bad about it. Regardless of what your real name was, or you situation in real life, in Wg you are an amazing person. To me, personally, you are one of the few people that just started talking to me for no reason. You greet me with a smile when I enter chat, and you make me feel welcomed.

I do not see why any of this should make you feel unwelcome.

And one other thing, I doubt I'd ever be able to build up enough courage to post what you did if I were you. Heck, I won't even tell anyone my first name.

*hug*
-Useph1

man Lacy, erm Cathie......didn't no u had so much going on =(, wow.....well i forgive you..i mean u had your reasons and u spilt the truth ricking ur friends and telling them who you are. That goes to show you really care and really shows ur friendship.

I may be a tad angry cuz you lied, but seriously, you said the truth and thats all i really care about.

Lacy,

Within Wg there are many level's of privacy that people wish to keep. I myself was a tertiary leader for near on 6 months before I even had the confidence to post any pictures of myself on WG forums. It wasn't untill I was elected as council that I actually told most of the clan my name, or even my initials.

I know of other members in WG you keep their real life and their RS life totally seperate from one and another and I have no disrespect for them. I do not that this will affect WG's thoughts about you at all, the fact is that we like people in Wg for their attitude, their firendliness, and the fact that they are there for you. It is very rare to find somone who joins a clan and is as friendly and loving as you are and were lacy, that won't change I hope.

I think this shows huge strength of charecter to come out and tell everyone not only the truth, but also how hard it has been for you. If anything I have more respect for you after you have told us this.

I doubt anyone will loose any love or respect for you after this, that I am sure of.

~Evil

Don't worry about it Lacy. I really didn't expect this but I don't view you any differently. We all have our dirty little secrets... No worries Lacy we still love you. Good luck in real life, and try your best to keep your composure in both worlds.

Real friends have nothing to hide. As a wise man named Dr. Suess once said, "Always do what you want, and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind."

You had the courage to reveal yourself and we'll take you in with open arms. You have to risk something to ever gain anything and you have gained my respect and trust. Thank you for your honesty and bravery, this post shows how much you care for your friends.


Brandon

I can understand real world troubles Lacy, I won't treat you any differently <3

Life is hell. We live through it, and escape to RS when we can.

I know the 'living with your child/ren's father' thing. I tried that. Ended up failing cause I was the only one paying rent, paying bills, paying for everything, cleaning, cooking, working, watching child.... He didn't do a damn thing to help. He would leave when he wanted to, come back when he wanted to...

I love you the same as a friend. I can't say I understand your situation and I most likely never will. All that matters to me is that you've always been funny and nice to me. . I hope we continue to be great friends. You don't have to act any certain way you want. I won't or think any less of you.
If you ever want to talk you can pm me at any time.
I'd still love to do Saradomin Godwars and anything else with you ingame. Hit me up sometime! I've always had fun.

Well none of this really changes how I perceive your personality. You're still the bright, nice person that's always in the chat, no matter what your personal situation is.

We all have lives behind the computer, it doesnt make us any less of a real person. The feelings are still the same, personalities are still the same.
Whether you are cathie or lacy ..you are still you. The same people are here supporting you whether you have three kids or no kids.

Don't worry about it a bit, people are accepting. Lighten up on yourself, you are your own biggest enemy. Forgive your own heart, be at peace and smile.

Don't worry Lacy, I'm sure nearly everyone else has been through the same thing. Me, Myself, I'm not that fond of the internet community, it took me 2 years+ to post a picture of myself here, and I don't really want to post more because of my paranoia with the internet lol =P

So it's VERY understandable, it will never change your personality or character, you have given the most amazing treatment to your fellow peers, and no one can overlook that and point a finger at you.

Cathie is such a lovely name by the way <3

~Abs

Don't worry, nobody will hold it against you. We all have secret stuff after all that we do not want to tell.

Don't worry Lacy/Cathie <3, I'm really sorry to hear about your real life but I'll still think of you the way you always were since we met WG is such a great community and you are part of it, and to me whoever you are I still love your personality and you are a great asset to this clan! Telling the truth has made me respect you more, so don't worry appology accepted!

~Claudio

Dear Lacy,

It takes alot of courage to do what you just did. Even I may not have such courage, I can't say I am qualified to even post these thoughts. That act alone is worthy of several reflections.

But know that everyone has their reasons for doing the things they do. Sometimes, the reasons are not just one or a few and certain conditions dictates what should or should not be done, even if could or could not. Including if its far too deep. It spans more than just what we wish. Just like whenever we say "if we could turn back time, I would've/might've...".

We make the decisions we do because of the circumstances then. It can be hard to change that decision when those reasons are strong in our eyes and lives. As thin as this might sound, so long as there's none harm intended, there really isn't anything to say if its wrong or right.

Everyone somehow needs an outlet in some form or another. To express, to be and to offer. The intention sets itself apart from the act. And yet they are sisters in relation.

If there's a need to forgive you then I do not think I will forgive myself in the first place, seriously. You are fine as you are for being you already, no matter the form of communication. Especially a general consensus such as online, it takes alot to embrace a different opinion, a many things including time. And for that, with all that honesty and courage, you have my utmost respect.

Thank you Lacy aka Cathie. Indeed, very nice names, both.

- Valdy

You are the Lacy I know and I am fine with just knowing the Lacy. But there are times when you need someone to talk to so you can relieve real life stress. There are points where almost everyone will vent a little bit. Its human nature to vent.
You have been terrific since I met you and it would be best not to change that my dear. Keep being the Lacy I know and I dont want you to be any other way.

Really didn't see this coming, but anyway, I am sure no one will hold it against you. We had a situation similiar to this in my old clan, except, it was a boy pretending to be a girl. He let go and told everyone the truth, and within a matter of days it was all accepted and everyone was merry again. This will be the case here I'm certain.

Credit for telling us, Lacy. The longer you held the truth back the worse it would have been to let it all out, so, well done . The thing is, it's not just because you said you were a flirty teenager that has made you all of these friends. It was your amazing personality and willingness to be everybody's friend and be a fantastic member of WG. So shove it back in his face whoever provoked you to make this post.

I know, I, and all of WG will treat you the same. <3

Lacy (i'll stick with lacy =p), barely anyone tells the whole truth on the internet, and people who use the internet have to respect that. Its completely understandable. Information in the wrong hands can be dangerous.

It sounds like you're having a tough time, and its certainly a great thing to use this sort of atmosphere as an escape. When a problem has no solution, any time fretted over it is wasted. The internet's the ideal medium to lose yourself, to play with your character, to express yourself in a different way. Whatever name you use, whatever details you give about yourself, you're still the same person. Its just like the difference between a business meeting and a family barbeque; different name used, different body language, different appearance, different onversation.

For example, i'm called michael by some family members, and mike by friends. 2 completely different words, yet I relate to them both. Even more so when people have nicknames.

Sorry to hear about your situation. We're not here to judge at all, we're here for support. I'm sure you're a great mother, and its a superb idea to hold the family together. So many people nowadays are split between their mother and father and end up splitting themselves in half over it.

It only matters when people play dead, like a few individuals have

Lacy everyone loves you because of your character and your goodwill, not because of your name and your real life.
Many WG do not release a lot of their real life details, however others do.
I have been in WG for almost a year now and I feel I can trust WG with my real life name and some particular members with my address + phone number, the choice is yours.

Everyone still loves you, don't worry

~George

Ima stick with Lacy. Just look at all these responces, throught the clan your known as a caring loving person who can cheer up anyone and make them feel happy. People love you because you there with a smile and so much love for everyone. Lifes a bitch, tis a fact, i have secrets i dont particulary want anyone to know. No-one even remotely worthy of your time and effort will view you differently. If someone turns thier back on you because of this, then **** em they aint worth it. Just knowing you is a blessing. I think i speak for most people when i say you will always have everyone in this clan behind you, there for you, always.

<3

You know, at least you told us eventually and that is what matters. Yeah it is odd that you would make up an alias, but I have a pretty trusting nature, so my perspective is different.

I hope in the future you do trust us enough to level with us, because no one is here to harm anyone. We are all here to have a good time, make friends, and in most cases, play the game we are addicted to. Nothing more, nothing less.

I've read the whole post, and I don't blame you at all. Just know everyone won't change his views towards you and your wonderful personality, we still love you

names are nothing tbh, thats why you have Rsn, irc name, you're rl name, etc. etc. i could say my name was pzhreroipasfmnasldfij, would you honestly see my differently?

never asked about how old you were and stuff, so the rest didn't shock me

no worries lacy

<3333333 Lacy I loved you when I found out and I know they will all still love you. We all have secrets and anyone that says they dont they lie. lol

I knew when you told me in IM that you posted that it was hard on you, but look at the response you got. Everyone still loves our Lacy <333.

Btw I read about some guy that pretended to be female on RSC that be more shocking then this.

That guy that told you about your friends gave you the push you needed to be really free on here. Maybe in the long run you will thank him for caring.

I dont understand how you have to feel sorry or anything
Im positive that no one's opinion was changed by this.
Is the internet not a way for all of us to get away from the troubles of real life?
I know for a fact that the majority act differently online then we would irl. Depending on the facts, our online selves may show more of our personality then the real life shows.
The internet is a place where you can put out your ideas without the common fears of putting the same ideas in real life. In a way, WG and RS become all of our own sanctuaries.

Who cares if Lacy isnt your real name? Everyone has secrets. Whether your name is Cathie or Lacy, it doesnt make a difference. We love you because of your personality, not because of your past, present, or future. We love you because of your friendlyness and the willingness to help. We love you because you're fun, and we wont hate you just because your real name isnt Lacy.

If anything, I respect you more. Its really considerate of you to stick together with the father of your kids. I know alot of my friends live with their parents seperated, and they cant experience some of the things im fortunate enough to experience.

We love you because you're you.
Different names, same people, same cause and heart.
Dont let anyone tell you otherwise.

You already know how I feel about this.

So no worries.

Lacy, You are a great friend of mine anod nothing will change that. So what if your names not lacy... You do not have to apologise to me about anything, you have your reasons. As evil said, there are levels of privacy in WG. Each with its own agenda/part of WG. I don't mind if you have 3 kids and your boyfriend is not the father. I dont care that you eluded us, all i care about is our friendship.

You can be as old, bad looking and lie through your teeth about who you are but it will never change the fact that you are my friend. I blame part of myself as i rarly speak to you now and at the end of the day as i said our friendship is all that matters. There are a few people who are married, have kids and are young but that does not stop the fact that they can enjoy WG. Take Winddancir for instance. She's not married and has a child but does that stop her from playing runescape? You need to adopt an attitude and think "Hey who cares if im 22 with 3 kids! Runescape is a game i enjoy! **** those who think that i dont deserve to be on the game".

I will always stick by you. You will always be lacy to me. A name is a title which you were born with, if you dont want to be a Cathie online then you dont have to be.

Keep safe princess, WG is your home and we accept you for who you are, we wouldnt want you any other way.

Lots of Luv, Simon x

Don't worry about it..we still love you!

Life is not all rainbows and sunshine. I started playing RS to escape real life, I'm not surprised other people have to; doesn't mean I personally plan on sharing because I'm a bully like that.

I understand what your going through and I respect you for telling us. I figurted that you weren't a teen when I heard you or someone in IRC saying "Hows the kids" orso to you. I do still see you as an amaizing friend. Don't ever think for a second I would stop thinking of you as a friend, EVER! So, Lacy, beleive me when I think I speak for almost everyone. You are an amaizing asset to WG and your personality rocks our worlds.

~Mickey

No worries Cathie its all fine, your an honest person and I respect that. It takes a lot of guts and glory to admit what you really mean and are. Either way your still my friend.

Lacy, you have absolutely nothing to feel sorry about. You had no obligation to share with us everything about your private life, and the very fact that you did says a lot. You have some problems in the real world that need to be dealt with and it's your own decision whether or not to expose them, and you mustered up the courage to do just that.

Everyone keeps certain things to themselves and what you kept is something that is obviously hard very personal.

I can't say I accept your apology because you have nothing to apologize for. What I will say is THANK YOU for trusting us enough to tell us this much about yourself. Thank you for confiding in us and putting everything on the table, and not being afraid of how we might react. You truly are a remarkable person and this has only made me admire you even more.

You havent done anything wrong compared to other people .. i know some guy who is 16 and acted like a female and said he was 25 and some other stuff .. you havent done anything wrong and im sure everyone will show forgiveness