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By Mickey on 15/06/2008
Some of you will have seen 'FROGSTER' in #Wg_lobby. Well, he is infact my brother. I'm making this post because I want to tell yo guys the truth.
I joined WG, an amaizing clan for the first time in around '05-06 after DG closed. I can't tell you how much I loved it. After WG back then, I made a small clan and so on. I then went on to join another small clan led by my friend Kecooler. My brother then folowed me to that clan, and I left because I could no longer get away from him on RS.
He has continued to folow me from clan to clan and it's getting beyond me just being able to ignore him.
I love this clan so much it's unbeleiveable. It means so much to me you guys will just never know. Alought I beleive this, I have to say, I can no longer be a member of WG should he join.
This place is my home, it's the only place I've realy felt I've been apreciated. I realy don't want to do this, I lvoe this clan too much. But it will hppen if he gets into WG.
I know it will probably come to this because WG is eager for members, but think of this;
I have been loyal to WG, I have so many friends in this clan, I have suggested alot and respected the leaders.
Please think about it. Some new blood>Me?
~Mickey <3
By Mager123789 on 15/06/2008
well, i saw you guys having a fight in the lobby, while you could have taken it to private
you shouldn't get us involved in this..
is it that hard to get along with him?
can't you just ignore him?
i can't imagine you like every1 in here, what do you with the people you dont like? ask them to leave the clan?
this is a pretty weird request
By Flame5107 on 15/06/2008
QUOTE (Mager123789 @ June 15, 2008 01:22 pm) |
well, i saw you guys having a fight in the lobby, while you could have taken it to private you shouldn't get us involved in this..
is it that hard to get along with him? can't you just ignore him? i can't imagine you like every1 in here, what do you with the people you dont like? ask them to leave the clan?
this is a pretty weird request |
mager i know both of them irl i know have never got on EVER and just earlier today because evegaza failed Fight Pits he blamed maddness990 and banned him from maddness's real life best friends irc chat that is how well they get on with eachother
~Flamey
By Elyxiatic on 15/06/2008
This is family we're talking about here.
Is it that much of a problem to get along with him?
He is your brother + all.
Weird request tbh.
But I do like you
By Troll84 on 15/06/2008
I don't understand fully :\ What's the problem with having your brother in the same clan as you? You explain he follows you clan-wise but i can't really see how that's a reason for dislike. Are there background reasons meaning you two naturally hate eachother? If that's true, then i suppose fair enough it's not right for him to be able to drive you from your home.
Im assuming you would only post this if it was completely impossible for you to get on so im not going to patronise you by advising you to do that. If the clan community could be negatively affected by him joining the clan, then i'd support the denial of his application should he choose to apply.
~Mugger84
By Robertw56 on 15/06/2008
Let him join, it's his choice, not yours.
By Tmal34 on 15/06/2008
QUOTE (Robertw56 @ June 15, 2008 09:48 am) |
Let him join, it's his choice, not yours. |
Kind of a cruel way to put it, but in a sense I agree.
It sounds to me like you guys are like all brothers are. You fight and stuff with each other but at the end of the day you are brothers.
Keep in mind if he does join he would be treated like any other trial member. That means if he does disrespect you, as a higher guardian, that you would expect council or a tertiary to take action against him.
However shouldn't he get a chance before condemned?
By Renoldojr10 on 15/06/2008
My brother is going to join WG later this summer when he gains level 100 but I told him it is not easy and I suggest you make some big money. Try to resolve and get along with him. I know we are going to fight okay..but he is my brother and he can do as he pleases even though he may be annoying he will learn and adapt.
~Ali
By Parth23 Jani on 15/06/2008
He's you're fecking brother. Sort it out with him , if he's younger , punch him in the face. If he's older , punch him in the face and run
By General199 on 15/06/2008
This is his decision and if he thinks he can handle being calm with you I think that he should be able to join.
By Back to Own on 15/06/2008
QUOTE (Parth23 Jani @ June 15, 2008 10:54 am) |
He's you're fecking brother. Sort it out with him , if he's younger , punch him in the face. If he's older , punch him in the face and run |
I agree in some way
He IS your family member. Me and my sister never really get along, but we do try to anyways.
Try to sort it out. I mean, it is as much of his right as it is for you.
This will really put leaders in a tough spot, but make their job easier. If you dont like him, just ignore him.
By Pyro Blade26 on 16/06/2008
tell the app managers to not accept him if he applies. done.
By David on 16/06/2008
Well, it's pretty obvious that you're incapable of getting along with this person, even though he is your brother.
Why don't you at least give it a chance though? I mean if by chance he gets in and starts to flame you, or constantly bother you, he'll be kicked, so right there the problem is solved. If he is actually a good member, then there is no reason for him to be kicked. You don't have to associate with him, and we could even try to keep you guys apart (as in if we have intra-clan events, you'll never be on the same team).
I mean, just stay away from him if this scenario does come true.
I mean, you have to look at this also from other people's perspective here. I mean, you're asking us to prematurely deprive someone of this experience. I mean, people have come in here one way and stayed because they changed. I remember a post by Glen saying that when he got here he was a jerk and stayed over the trial period, but now he's a raid leader and respected by us.
I mean, this in it's most basic form is just a cry for attention or someone wanting things their way.
Your argument is "If I don't get my way, I'm out. It's me or them." You stay here for the community you've said it yourself. What if there was someone who just didn't like you when you were applying and said "If Madness gets in, I'm leaving you guys," and people caved? Would you like us then?
What you're asking us to do is only degrading the very thing you love about this clan.
I'm not trying to show you up or anything because I like you as a person, but honestly, what you're doing is really quite childish. If he gets in, give it a few days. If he's as bad as you say, he'll be dealt with. If he's not he gets to stay and we just try to keep you two apart unless you're able to just ignore him.
By Winddancir on 16/06/2008
I'm sorry you guys, but I'm completely with Mickey on this. I don't care if they are related by blood, milk, carrot juice or what. When you cannot get along with a sibling, why the hell should the one place you feel safe and happy at be compromised? I'd be asking the same damned thing if it was my brother trying to join WG. Considering my brother pulled a knife on me at one point... Yeh. Support your clanmates guys.
Some new member isn't worth losing Mickey.
By Winddancir on 18/06/2008
QUOTE (Mickey in #wg IRC) |
<Mickey> Wind, or someone who can delete topics! <Mickey> Can one of you delete my topic in Level 1/3? <Mickey> I've re-considerd |
QUOTE (PM with Mickey) |
<Winddancir> the one on your brother? <Mickey> Ye <Winddancir> gonna close it, not delete... <Mickey> I don't want it there tbh <Mickey> it'll just get me flamed for not being loyal and stuff -.- <Winddancir> :S |
I'd rather that this was where we have a record of it. Even though Mickey would prefer it be deleted, we do need to know in case something comes up.
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