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Pleasing the women?
By Sum-41xx on 02/07/2008
ADULT TOPIC THREAD 18+(or respective to your country)
Alright, so as some of you know I'm dating an older girl, she's 24, and also very attractive. Anyways, for those of you that are pros out their, or even the women that probably know even better than us male pros. What are some ways to please her in bed? She really enjoys sex, but I'm not sure what really gets her happy, I know she gets fairly happy when I play around with her [Insert that word that the older ones in here know]. Any tips? Positions? etc?
I am a pretty romantic lover too, and she does like laying down when we're done and so do I. So that aspects all good.
But, tips, that what I need!
[BTW, I'm aware that there are younger people in the clan, so if you want to remove this topic for that reason then go right ahead, I'm just not sure of any better place than WG for advice
]
Alright, so as some of you know I'm dating an older girl, she's 24, and also very attractive. Anyways, for those of you that are pros out their, or even the women that probably know even better than us male pros. What are some ways to please her in bed? She really enjoys sex, but I'm not sure what really gets her happy, I know she gets fairly happy when I play around with her [Insert that word that the older ones in here know]. Any tips? Positions? etc?
I am a pretty romantic lover too, and she does like laying down when we're done and so do I. So that aspects all good.
But, tips, that what I need!
[BTW, I'm aware that there are younger people in the clan, so if you want to remove this topic for that reason then go right ahead, I'm just not sure of any better place than WG for advice
] By Sithofwookie on 02/07/2008
By Cameronm123 on 02/07/2008
Although it may be awquard, ask her if she has any sexual fantasies that she might want to do.
By Stokenut on 02/07/2008
Find her G-spot. But don't put your finger(s) into her before she's nice and wet. Ger her juices flowing.
I suggest a good 5-20 minutes of foreplay depending upon the girl. Giving her head will really get her going but take it easy, don't go over the top. If you're unsure for tongue movements write letters of the alphabet.
If she's not into it, shoving your fingers into her vagina won't get you very far. Once she's warmed up, insert your index or index and middle finger into her vagina.
Curl your fingers upwards towards her stomach a little bit and you'll eventually find a spot that feels different, slightly spongy imo. Different from the rest of her. This is what you're looking for. The scientific name is the "Urethral Sponge" but everyone calls it the female G-spot.
You have to stimulate it gently. Also she may feel she needs to pee when you start to mess with it, but this will go away eventually. Don't stop paying attention to her other parts. Keep licking her while you do this. The g-spot is also the key to making a girl squirt. Which i fucking love.
I'd also suggest just asking her what she likes. When you're both naked it's pretty safe to ask anything sexual without feeling embarrassed. Find out what she wants and give her that. Equally let her know what you want. I personally get most of my kick out of making her cum.
I suggest a good 5-20 minutes of foreplay depending upon the girl. Giving her head will really get her going but take it easy, don't go over the top. If you're unsure for tongue movements write letters of the alphabet.
If she's not into it, shoving your fingers into her vagina won't get you very far. Once she's warmed up, insert your index or index and middle finger into her vagina.
Curl your fingers upwards towards her stomach a little bit and you'll eventually find a spot that feels different, slightly spongy imo. Different from the rest of her. This is what you're looking for. The scientific name is the "Urethral Sponge" but everyone calls it the female G-spot.
You have to stimulate it gently. Also she may feel she needs to pee when you start to mess with it, but this will go away eventually. Don't stop paying attention to her other parts. Keep licking her while you do this. The g-spot is also the key to making a girl squirt. Which i fucking love.
I'd also suggest just asking her what she likes. When you're both naked it's pretty safe to ask anything sexual without feeling embarrassed. Find out what she wants and give her that. Equally let her know what you want. I personally get most of my kick out of making her cum.
By Sum-41xx on 02/07/2008
Yeah, she really loves head. Out of the three times we've done it, every time she wanted head. Two of those three I'm pretty sure she orgasmed and really liked it. I also already know that she likes getting fingered in the G-Spot. I haven't had her ejaculate yet though, and just like you stoke I definitely get a kick out of it. I'll make sure to ask her the next time. I can't this weekend cuz she's going to the cottage and I work 
But possibly tomorrow, going to play tennis (we both really like playing tennis together), if I go near her place and her mom isn't home, I can do it at her place, which I really hope cuz we've only been doing it at my place and I get a bit stressed(which messes with my erection/performance 
) worrying that my parents will walk in on us :S Anyways, hopefully tomorrow.
EDIT: OH, btw, I last a REALLY long time before I ejaculate. Like if I really wanted to I could last an hour. But most of the time I last 15-20 mins, you think 15-20 is long enough? How long should I please her for do you guys think before I ejaculate? Also, my buddy was telling me this and I don't know if its true, but I hear that a lot of women get a kick out of you ejaculating in them(obviously with a condom), is that true at all , or should I pull it out before doing it? And do you know if they like it when you blow you load on them somewhere, I've heard of my buddy and his gf and she likes it on her breasts, are a lot of women like that or just a few?
^lol, and there are all the questions^
But possibly tomorrow, going to play tennis (we both really like playing tennis together), if I go near her place and her mom isn't home, I can do it at her place, which I really hope cuz we've only been doing it at my place and I get a bit stressed(which messes with my erection/performance ) worrying that my parents will walk in on us :S Anyways, hopefully tomorrow.EDIT: OH, btw, I last a REALLY long time before I ejaculate. Like if I really wanted to I could last an hour. But most of the time I last 15-20 mins, you think 15-20 is long enough? How long should I please her for do you guys think before I ejaculate? Also, my buddy was telling me this and I don't know if its true, but I hear that a lot of women get a kick out of you ejaculating in them(obviously with a condom), is that true at all , or should I pull it out before doing it? And do you know if they like it when you blow you load on them somewhere, I've heard of my buddy and his gf and she likes it on her breasts, are a lot of women like that or just a few?
^lol, and there are all the questions^
By Stokenut on 02/07/2008
| QUOTE (Sum-41xx @ July 02, 2008 04:52 pm) |
| Yeah, she really loves head. Out of the three times we've done it, every time she wanted head. Two of those three I'm pretty sure she orgasmed and really liked it. I also already know that she likes getting fingered in the G-Spot. I haven't had her ejaculate yet though, and just like you stoke I definitely get a kick out of it. I'll make sure to ask her the next time. I can't this weekend cuz she's going to the cottage and I work But possibly tomorrow, going to play tennis (we both really like playing tennis together), if I go near her place and her mom isn't home, I can do it at her place, which I really hope cuz we've only been doing it at my place and I get a bit stressed(which messes with my erection/performance ) worrying that my parents will walk in on us :S Anyways, hopefully tomorrow. EDIT: OH, btw, I last a REALLY long time before I ejaculate. Like if I really wanted to I could last an hour. But most of the time I last 15-20 mins, you think 15-20 is long enough? How long should I please her for do you guys think before I ejaculate? Also, my buddy was telling me this and I don't know if its true, but I hear that a lot of women get a kick out of you ejaculating in them(obviously with a condom), is that true at all , or should I pull it out before doing it? And do you know if they like it when you blow you load on them somewhere, I've heard of my buddy and his gf and she likes it on her breasts, are a lot of women like that or just a few? ^lol, and there are all the questions^ |
"Nice guys finish last" - Stick to that religiously.
The average session of sex lasts only 15 minutes surprisingly. That is generally down to the guy finishing too soon. Women can last an hour or more quite comfortably and then come back for 2nds after a 5 minute break. I'd suggest you hold out until you're sure she's done, then finish yourself off.
You could always go for a simultaneous orgasm. But only works best if your orgasm inside of her. Kinda reliant on the condom unless she's on the pill or something?
By Firelion08 on 02/07/2008
This thread went from mature content to extremely mature content.
You might want to put a big "ADULT CONTENT" message in big, red letters in your first post, so the younger members don't accidently venture into something they weren't prepared for.
You might want to put a big "ADULT CONTENT" message in big, red letters in your first post, so the younger members don't accidently venture into something they weren't prepared for.
By grimr34p3rx on 02/07/2008
| QUOTE (Firelion08 @ July 02, 2008 10:26 pm) |
| This thread went from mature content to extremely mature content. You might want to put a big "ADULT CONTENT" message in big, red letters in your first post, so the younger members don't accidently venture into something they weren't prepared for. |
They all learn about it eventually anyways xD
By Sum-41xx on 02/07/2008
| QUOTE (grimr34p3rx @ July 02, 2008 10:35 pm) | ||
They all learn about it eventually anyways xD |
lol, very true. it's only the few of those that are 11/12 that I'm worried about. I'm not even sure if we have any clan members that young though :S. If they're 14 or older they've probably learned most of the terms but still, I'm sure their parents wouldn't appreciate it if they're kids were reading this stuff.
ANYWAYS!!! Away from that and lets get in to more tips here.
And btw Stoke, she isn't on the pill, and I don't think she would want to go on it.
By Gibble00 on 02/07/2008
This topic delivers. Proud of you Sum. 
*adult forum memories ensue*
*adult forum memories ensue*
By Pyro Blade26 on 02/07/2008
*Takes notes*
By His Lordship on 02/07/2008
The brain is the most powerful sexual organ.
Whisper a few seductive words into her ear... get her anticipating something and imagining something. Leave a few things to the imagination.
Don't just go for the raw sexual pleasure.
Please the brain as well. It will enhance your pleasure guarenteed.
For example, you can leave room for to the imagination by trying sex with some of your clothes on. Flatter her greatly by complimenting her... tell her that her skin is so smooth as you rub it... and rub it very lightly. And spend a lot of time teasing her before you enter. Get her craving it so when she finally gets it, it's much more satisfying.
There's a lot of psychology to sex.
EDIT: One more thing. There's nothing wrong with 15 minute sex. Don't try and last too long. Sometimes its better not to prolong it. Sure its good to extend the pleasure but I'm starting to think that short and sweet works fine. Don't feel obliged to last an hour or longer.
Whisper a few seductive words into her ear... get her anticipating something and imagining something. Leave a few things to the imagination.
Don't just go for the raw sexual pleasure.
Please the brain as well. It will enhance your pleasure guarenteed.
For example, you can leave room for to the imagination by trying sex with some of your clothes on. Flatter her greatly by complimenting her... tell her that her skin is so smooth as you rub it... and rub it very lightly. And spend a lot of time teasing her before you enter. Get her craving it so when she finally gets it, it's much more satisfying.
There's a lot of psychology to sex.
EDIT: One more thing. There's nothing wrong with 15 minute sex. Don't try and last too long. Sometimes its better not to prolong it. Sure its good to extend the pleasure but I'm starting to think that short and sweet works fine. Don't feel obliged to last an hour or longer.
By grimr34p3rx on 02/07/2008
Tbh, this is an interesting topic.
Educational, to say the least. xD
Educational, to say the least. xD
By Sum-41xx on 02/07/2008
| QUOTE (His Lordship @ July 02, 2008 10:44 pm) |
| The brain is the most powerful sexual organ. Whisper a few seductive words into her ear... get her anticipating something and imagining something. Leave a few things to the imagination. Don't just go for the raw sexual pleasure. Please the brain as well. It will enhance your pleasure guarenteed. For example, you can leave room for to the imagination by trying sex with some of your clothes on. Flatter her greatly by complimenting her... tell her that her skin is so smooth as you rub it... and rub it very lightly. And spend a lot of time teasing her before you enter. Get her craving it so when she finally gets it, it's much more satisfying. There's a lot of psychology to sex. EDIT: One more thing. There's nothing wrong with 15 minute sex. Don't try and last too long. Sometimes its better not to prolong it. Sure its good to extend the pleasure but I'm starting to think that short and sweet works fine. Don't feel obliged to last an hour or longer. |
Actually you know what, your probably right. She LOVES it when I breathe near/into her ear, it's as if she orgasms when I do it. She also likes it when I nibble(not bite) her nipples and lick around them. Every time I breath around her ears she asks me to go down on her
. Also, any recommendations on condoms, so far I've only used a normal one as well as ultrathins. Do you guys know of any that are a bit bumpy or something, ones that give really make the lady happy? I guess she's fortunate to have me cuz I also get a kick out of making her get what she wants
lol.btw, the female condoms, how do those pare off? I've never used one before, are they worth it and how does it feel for her? another buddy was saying that I could always use a vibrator on her while we're doing it, like tease her with it a bit, think that would do well?
By Tnuac on 02/07/2008
Nice going, you moved fast 
By His Lordship on 02/07/2008
DO NOT LET HER WEAR A FEMALE CONDOM.
IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE FUCKING A PLASTIC BAG!
Stick to the good old fashioned male ribbed/studded condoms... the extra thin ones so you get more pleasure. Make sure it's not too tight or you'll numb your nerve endings.
IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE FUCKING A PLASTIC BAG!
Stick to the good old fashioned male ribbed/studded condoms... the extra thin ones so you get more pleasure. Make sure it's not too tight or you'll numb your nerve endings.
By Sum-41xx on 02/07/2008
| QUOTE (Tnuac @ July 02, 2008 11:05 pm) |
| Nice going, you moved fast |
Lol, I know. I feel so pro. It's only been like 2 weeks maybe haha possibly not even..
EDIT: I'll make sure to take that advice lordy
I never found plastic bag fucking to be very fun so I'll pass with the female condom hehe.OH, and I have another questions for you LORDY, since you said the psychological aspect of sex really amplifies, how long should I make out with her/tease her before we start doing actually having intercourse?
Here's a pic of me and her for those of you who are wondering what she looks like:
By bbgunmaster on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Gibble00 @ July 02, 2008 10:39 pm) |
| This topic delivers. Proud of you Sum. *adult forum memories ensue* |
damnit, bring back the adult forums
btw, gj sum, pretty girl you have
By Sum-41xx on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (bbgunmaster @ July 03, 2008 01:57 am) | ||
damnit, bring back the adult forums btw, gj sum, pretty girl you have |
thank you thank you
going to play tennis again tomorrow, before we're going to eat before. I'm thinking that maybe we'll go eat and then go back to her place and maybe have some fun and then go play tennis hehe
what do you guys think? cuz I really want to do it at her place, I'd be so much more comfortable cuz only her mom lives there and I doubt her moms gonna be there.
By Flame Reece on 03/07/2008
I read adults only and was intrigued.
Cheers for the tips (H)
Cheers for the tips (H)
By Spiltbark31 on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Stokenut @ July 02, 2008 04:26 pm) |
| Find her G-spot. But don't put your finger(s) into her before she's nice and wet. Ger her juices flowing. I suggest a good 5-20 minutes of foreplay depending upon the girl. Giving her head will really get her going but take it easy, don't go over the top. If you're unsure for tongue movements write letters of the alphabet. If she's not into it, shoving your fingers into her vagina won't get you very far. Once she's warmed up, insert your index or index and middle finger into her vagina. Curl your fingers upwards towards her stomach a little bit and you'll eventually find a spot that feels different, slightly spongy imo. Different from the rest of her. This is what you're looking for. The scientific name is the "Urethral Sponge" but everyone calls it the female G-spot. You have to stimulate it gently. Also she may feel she needs to pee when you start to mess with it, but this will go away eventually. Don't stop paying attention to her other parts. Keep licking her while you do this. The g-spot is also the key to making a girl squirt. Which i fucking love. I'd also suggest just asking her what she likes. When you're both naked it's pretty safe to ask anything sexual without feeling embarrassed. Find out what she wants and give her that. Equally let her know what you want. I personally get most of my kick out of making her cum. |
this is basically everything to do with the phyiscal part. Very good lord. But sum dont 4get , always ask her want SHE wants because for all you know you could be hurting her or its not comfortable for her.She might not tell you because she's embarrased about it,h hopefully she tells you something if its uncomfortable for her. About jizzing on her ask her where she wants it , it's usually on her tits but every girl is different so you dont know untill you ask.
Gratz on wheeling in the bitty btw. Funny how somehow on Runescape would know so much lol
By Sum-41xx on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Spiltbark31 @ July 03, 2008 02:20 am) | ||
this is basically everything to do with the phyiscal part. Very good lord. But sum dont 4get , always ask her want SHE wants because for all you know you could be hurting her or its not comfortable for her.She might not tell you because she's embarrased about it,h hopefully she tells you something if its uncomfortable for her. About jizzing on her ask her where she wants it , it's usually on her tits but every girl is different so you dont know untill you ask. Gratz on wheeling in the bitty btw. Funny how somehow on Runescape would know so much lol |
She's older than me so I doubt she'd be embarrassed if she was hurting while I was doing something.
Oh, and btw, I just got some pleasure condoms, one of those ones that have a design to them and supposedly feel better (hope they do
). Btw, anyone know how long it takes on average to put on a condom(just want to make sure I'm not too slow when I do it), cuz I get a little stressed when I do it and I think it takes me usually about 30-40 seconds, is that a descent time? Cuz I don't want her to be waiting to long. By Havochaha on 03/07/2008
i learned a lot today
By David on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Havochaha @ July 03, 2008 04:40 am) |
| i learned a lot today |
+1
Keep the good info cumming people!
Ahha, I made a poor joke, but a joke nevertheless.
By Gibble00 on 03/07/2008
Love the pic. Yall look great together.
Feeling like the beach now, who's up for it?
Feeling like the beach now, who's up for it?
By Firelion08 on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (grimr34p3rx @ July 02, 2008 10:35 pm) |
| They all learn about it eventually anyways xD |
We all die eventually, too. lol
And, I agree, nice pic, Sum. She's cute.
By Dorcha3377 on 03/07/2008
This is a very interesting topic indeed...Stoke..I will be in England next summer..watch out!
Sum..let me give you some feminine advice..forget the psychological stuff.
Be honest with her about how you feel. You obviously like her for being her, not just the sex. Sex by itself is great, but its the whole feelings and the mutual trust that turns sex into love making.
Be honest about your feelings with her. Don't just be a machine be a lover.
You two are very cute together.
Sum..let me give you some feminine advice..forget the psychological stuff.
Be honest with her about how you feel. You obviously like her for being her, not just the sex. Sex by itself is great, but its the whole feelings and the mutual trust that turns sex into love making.
Be honest about your feelings with her. Don't just be a machine be a lover.
You two are very cute together.
By Mager123789 on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Sum-41xx @ July 03, 2008 02:54 am) | ||||
She's older than me so I doubt she'd be embarrassed if she was hurting while I was doing something. Oh, and btw, I just got some pleasure condoms, one of those ones that have a design to them and supposedly feel better (hope they do ). Btw, anyone know how long it takes on average to put on a condom(just want to make sure I'm not too slow when I do it), cuz I get a little stressed when I do it and I think it takes me usually about 30-40 seconds, is that a descent time? Cuz I don't want her to be waiting to long. |
Don't get too stressed, or you may fail
take it easy
or let her put it on
By Sum-41xx on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Mager123789 @ July 03, 2008 08:54 am) | ||||||
Don't get too stressed, or you may fail take it easy or let her put it on |
I've asked her twice to put it on hehe. Both times she said no.
And trust me dorcha, I'm definitely more into the loving part of sex rather than the whole lovemachine part. We cuddle etc.
By Renoldojr10 on 03/07/2008
I learned more in Stoke's post then I did in my Sex Ed. class. Wow I'm learning from this actually lol. Good luck with her!
By Havochaha on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Renoldojr10 @ July 03, 2008 02:02 pm) |
| I learned more in Stoke's post then I did in my Sex Ed. class. Wow I'm learning from this actually lol. Good luck with her! |
too bad youll never use it
By rachellove9 on 03/07/2008
I could tell you something to add to Steve's method if you pm me in irc.
By Sum-41xx on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (rachellove9 @ July 03, 2008 02:16 pm) |
| I could tell you something to add to Steve's method if you pm me in irc. |
Can you just PM me it on here?
By Pyroclastic0 on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Sum-41xx @ July 03, 2008 02:58 pm) | ||
Can you just PM me it on here? |
yeah me too
By Reticked on 03/07/2008
You guys sounds creepy everytime you said 'zomg we learn stuff'
By Sum-41xx on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Reticked @ July 03, 2008 05:04 pm) |
| You guys sounds creepy everytime you said 'zomg we learn stuff' |
Lol, who cares. There are some things that I am learning to. Not every1 is a sex pro ya know.
I think I mentioned this in another post, but do you guys think "Ultra Pleasure" condoms will make any difference, cuz I got some last night. J/w?
By Robertw56 on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Sum-41xx @ July 03, 2008 06:04 pm) | ||
Lol, who cares. There are some things that I am learning to. Not every1 is a sex pro ya know. I think I mentioned this in another post, but do you guys think "Ultra Pleasure" condoms will make any difference, cuz I got some last night. J/w? |
Make your own pleasure
By Stokenut on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Renoldojr10 @ July 03, 2008 09:02 am) |
| I learned more in Stoke's post then I did in my Sex Ed. class. Wow I'm learning from this actually lol. Good luck with her! |
lol
By Parth23 Jani on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Sum-41xx @ July 03, 2008 01:23 pm) |
| I'm definitely more into the loving part of sex rather than the whole lovemachine part. We cuddle etc. |
What now?
By Sum-41xx on 03/07/2008
| QUOTE (Parth23 Jani @ July 03, 2008 07:25 pm) | ||
What now? |
Ok, i lied lol.
By Timmy11593 on 07/07/2008
Rachel mind pming me too?
Wow @ this topic
Wow @ this topic
By Sum-41xx on 07/07/2008
Hey, wow, some1 actually bumped this topic up
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